"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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o ****! advice! saw a hot girl again in gym!!!

Enjin 7

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Ok like so this girl is in one of my classes and she is like an hb9 and like long story I said hey to her and then I saw her at a party and she recognized me and we danced and then i thought i saw her at the gym today and she smiled so i just smiled back but i know i should have approached her but i didnt recognize her until she was leaving and i was in the middle of a set of leg curls and like i smiled but she just gave me a dirty look trying to say "you stupid **** you didnt come say hi to me" so in conclusion, wtf should i do?

there is something called facebook. its kind of like college myspace. but the picture i have on there is only a picture of my ass so i need a new one but should i message her on there and be like "i think i saw you in the gym today" or should i just wait 2 days and see her in class and be like "hey did i see you in the gym the other day?" or any other options would be really good!

thanks!

RUN ON SENTENCES KICK ASS!!!!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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:confused:

You got nothing better to worry about? Oh jezz... so you didn't recognize her - big fvcking deal! Boo hoo! Go talk to her tomorrow and tell her that you didn't recognise her... all the sweat and shyt made her look too manly. Ble... whatever.

Amateurs.
 

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Do not approch her on the net. Just wait till you see her in class and DONT even mention seeing her at gym. If she mentions it say "i was busy working out". Under no circumstances approach her and say that you saw her at gym.

Just approach say "hi" and talk to her.
 

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aaaaaallllllll riiiiiiiight! cool!

<------ amateur yes. thanks for the help.
 

BackToTheMack

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F**k you you asked for help what i said was right. just because i got only a few posts im not an ameture i been on other seduction sites since i was 15.

Next time you ask for help from someone smarter than you accept it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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BuckwildNYC

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UHHHHH, Backtothemack...... I think the arrow about being an amateur was pointing to himself. Take a chill pill buddy.
 

Enjin 7

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haha no hating on anyone!

when i am really tired or hyper i type like an idiot.

and how in the world could you interpret the arrow wrong. it was pointing to me.
y
all make me laugh sometimes. its not really a big deal.

also the aaaaaaaalllll riiiiiiight... you just have to hear me talk in person. My voice has so much inflection its like listening to someone in a japanese cartoon. just my personality.

im sorry you took my appreciation as hating bro.

alls i know is MUCH LOVE TO ALL YALL BALLAS!!!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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