"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"Nympho with morals."

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A girl described herself as a nympho with morals. Last time I checked, a nympho is someone with an irrepressible sexual appetite. I think what she means is, if she's going out with a guy, she can justify the sex because she thinks she's "in love."

This seems to be a common trend. A lot of women who are "born-again virgins." Will have sex if the guy commits, or pretends to commit (of course, we know the guy is probably just saying what she wants to hear and tapping her best friend on the side, but that's another issue) but won't have intentional casual sex even with the guy with the greatest game in the world.

My question is, how can these women just turn their sexual appetites on and off? I understand WHY they do it...they can justify sex in a relationship...anti-slut defense..."I'm not a slut if I'm only having sex with one guy" etc., but I don't know how they physically can deal without sex if they really like it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Thats why they look for a man that satisfies her sexually.
 
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Yes, and they'll commit with such a man, but my question is, how can they turn their sexual appetite on and off like a switch? If I'm horny, I'll hook up with a 7 who isn't exactly my type rather than "do without." Girls can just turn it off and wait for their "perfect guy."
 
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I dont think they ever 'turn off' their sexual appetite.(unless it is some sort of medical condition or mental issue) Why should they?

Anyway, they manage it. And of course they also 'service' themselves when they cant find a suitable lover.

And my question is , why is this of concern to you?
 
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It's important to me because I don't want to commit, or lie to them, to get laid. Not looking for a girlfriend, but also sick of the drunk women I see at bars and clubs. Would like to meet a girl that wants sex as badly as I do without being under the influence or in a relationship.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So you want a fvck buddy?

Plenty of those out there. It's a matter of "game" and your skills with words.
 
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