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NYE friend telling me to bring girls to the party

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Hey guys just trying to see if this is a realistic expectation...

I have a friend who is going to an aquaintence's house for a NYE house Party. Ofcourse he will probably be the only one i know including some guys im also cool with.

Well the aquaintence says I should bring some females to the party. Problem is...I know Females, but they are all doing their own thing..as females tend to do this time of year because they have options.

I don't have any plates to bring to this party...I'm out of luck as far as women go this New Years Eve....2011 has been a Bad year womanwise for me..

I been losing plates left and right...:mad: All started with the chick in Boston *sigh*

anyways, My question to my fellow Don Juan'er is this...IF I go out hard Cold approaching, trying to call up friends to see what's good etc
Could I possibly meet new chicks to bring to this party???

what would you do?....I don't know why but this is somewhat bothering me to the point I just want to say **** it and just stay my black ass home for New years **** it.
 

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Meet new chicks to bring to this party between now and Saturday?

I guess you could. But:

A- does that make a good first date?
B- do you really want to spend an entire night at a party with some girl you barely know?

How about you just chill with the date expectations and go to the party alone to drink and have fun with your friends? Honestly, I'm tempted to stay home on NYE too...not because of a lack of plates, but because I could really use a night to sleep a solid 12 hours.
 
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Iceberg said:
Meet new chicks to bring to this party between now and Saturday?

I guess you could. But:

A- does that make a good first date?
B- do you really want to spend an entire night at a party with some girl you barely know?

How about you just chill with the date expectations and go to the party alone to drink and have fun with your friends? Honestly, I'm tempted to stay home on NYE too...not because of a lack of plates, but because I could really use a night to sleep a solid 12 hours.
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Iceberg: Clear out your PM inbox bro.








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