"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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NYC Wingman Meet Again! June 9th, 2006

BlackAccord

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Date: June 9, 2006-Saturday, CANCELLED

Time: 10:20pm DON'T BE LATE!, CANCELLED

Location: NYC Penn Station, Hoolihan's (same spot as last time)

Requirements: 18 years or older, preferably 21 (last time we had to sneak people into bars)

Clubbing, Bars, Sarging all that good stuff. I know many people from last time cannot come, and this is fine as this night will be a much smaller group.

CANCELLED
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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KingBeef

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DAMN IT GUYS!!!! I would love to come by i got to do inventory at my store through the overnight....:mad: I won't be out till 4 am.... WOW, i thought all of you guys were gonna wait like an extra week or so, i'm surprised. Have fun guys.

- Kingbeef
 

B-Lemond

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How the hell are you going to get people to go with a ONE DAY notice?

I could've gone but not anymore. I mean DAMN... Give a bigger notice next time...
 

BlackAccord

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it's not a one day notice, read the last nyc thread, people showed interest in coming again this saturday and as stated above we all understand that it will be a much smaller group this time. we'll arrange something bigger, and with a larger notice in the future
 

BlackAccord

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Hey guys, I can't make it for tonight. My lifeguarding course was delayed to 8-10pm, so now it just wouldnt work if I did with you. Not sure if you guys still want to do it, but I took all of our names off the list. Sorry again.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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