"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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NYC Night Game Group

Redzky

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I am in a group that has been around for a few years and meets up every Friday in Meatpacking.

Levels range from beginner to intermediate.

We usually have around 4-10 decent gamed guys that come out regularly.

If you want in, just send me a pm and I'll fill you in on the details.

Thanks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Jaylan

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Agree. You dont want a sausage fest group. 1 or 2 wings is enough.
 

Jaylan

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My deal with a group over 4 or 5 guys is that there usually ends up with either dudes clowning each other in a passive aggressive way to compete for women...or you have killjoys who arent doing well with the ladies that night and then bringing the vibe down.

I dont mind bro-ing out and chilling with the dudes...but once you get too many guys together, the group behavior changes in a way thats not conducive to attracting women. At least this is just my experience. Ive had better luck getting women when Im with 1 or 2 good wings, rather than a group of 5 or more guys.

That said, I may give this NYC group a try in a month. Right now Im working on saving for a few things I need, plus I may start a new job soon. If I get this new gig Ill be closer to the city and definitely down for some club fun.
 

salinechow

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Im in! I think I can add as much as a take away from hanging with you guys. Im on LI. Let me know!
 

Redzky

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The group is still active PM me if anyone is still interested.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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randoms

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Hey Redzky, I'm interested.

I don't have permission to PM yet, but maybe you can message me.
 

KingBeef

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I'm going to Miami for a three day weekend this friday. Hopefully the following week I can head out with you guys...
 

JustinBustin

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anyone down to wing in upper manhattan or the bronx? Inwood and Wash Heights, while rife with bourgeoisie a-holes, also is home to numerous hot white yuppies and sexy latinas. Really don't feel like going down to meatpacking to get preyed on by lonely cougars, would rather meet and help others to meet and f interesting sexy women near my home. PM if interested!
 

KingBeef

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JustinBustin said:
anyone down to wing in upper manhattan or the bronx? Inwood and Wash Heights, while rife with bourgeoisie a-holes, also is home to numerous hot white yuppies and sexy latinas. Really don't feel like going down to meatpacking to get preyed on by lonely cougars, would rather meet and help others to meet and f interesting sexy women near my home. PM if interested!
Dude...you're funny. I was thinking the same thing when I went out for the first time in a while this past Saturday and my wingman told me he was dying to catch up with some Latinas. My work schedule for the last few months has been crazy and I've been in somewhat in a cave with my social life (work, gym, sleep....repeat) It has suffered but it will fully recover.

It's also this weather in nyc these last few months...I'm dying for sun and warmer weather to rejuvenate me, don't know. Maybe it's a just a weird year for me... (I took a weekend to go to Miami to see my Dad and that was a small taste of what NYC should be right now) :rolleyes: Also, for some reason, I work on a Saturday, go straight to the gym and my other guys are still undecided of where to go and I just stay in or go to a local bar.... they piss me off with their indecisiveness. Sometimes you need more than one click of wingmen to keep you fresh and honest. They become to complacent, predictable and settle for the same old places....

You should try to get in contact with Redzky (and so should I) about the nyc wingmen chat and get acquainted. But me personally, I'm down for anywhere....Williamsburg, meat packing, midtown, lower east, long island, Hoboken, NJ... I'm down for whatever.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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JustinBustin

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kingbeef said:
Dude...you're funny. I was thinking the same thing when I went out for the first time in a while this past Saturday and my wingman told me he was dying to catch up with some Latinas. My work schedule for the last few months has been crazy and I've been in somewhat in a cave with my social life (work, gym, sleep....repeat) It has suffered but it will fully recover.

It's also this weather in nyc these last few months...I'm dying for sun and warmer weather to rejuvenate me, don't know. Maybe it's a just a weird year for me... (I took a weekend to go to Miami to see my Dad and that was a small taste of what NYC should be right now) Also, for some reason, I work on a Saturday, go straight to the gym and my other guys are still undecided of where to go and I just stay in or go to a local bar.... they piss me off with their indecisiveness. Sometimes you need more than one click of wingmen to keep you fresh and honest. They become to complacent, predictable and settle for the same old places....

You should try to get in contact with Redzky (and so should I) about the nyc wingmen chat and get acquainted. But me personally, I'm down for anywhere....Williamsburg, meat packing, midtown, lower east, long island, Hoboken, NJ... I'm down for whatever.
I messaged reds on fb, he said a secret process involving ancient chinese hexagrams and warthog sacrifice, plus a pair of aviator sunglasses is required to join the group. I guess I'm down although I think that's a bit odd. If you're down we can wing before then and see if we gel tho. I'd be down for lower east or midtown.
 
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