"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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NYC Meetup!!!

Snow Plowman

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For those who are actually going out atleast once a week and aren't actually Negative people. (Trust me I have no intention of meeting up with wierdos, especially if they have a negative mindset)

I've never seen what DJ gaming is like and I'd like to see what I can learn because as far as reading and looking at majority of this forum I don't actually think many are out there and actually improving. If some actually are I'd like to see what I can learn.

Overall I basically think a few NYC dudes could meet in manhattan (Union Square park) and hit up some sets, wing with each other and have some overall fun.

My proposal (If some can't make it then request a new date/time)
1. Date: Oct 5th, 2007 (I think friday would be good since its end of weekday. I can't do it in the weekend due to dance group priorties)
2. Time: Could meetup at 6:00pm (I'd have to leave around 8 or 9 that way I can get home and change to meetup with my friends for later)
3. Place: Union Square Park
4. Purpose: Meet/Greet, Have some fun PUing, Winging with each other, learning new things

Also it would be useful if you post some background about yourself as follows, just to get an idea of the people we are meeting up with.
Age: 18
PU Method: RSD, and bits of other stuff.
What I want to learn
- Winging Dynamics (I have only winged once which actually went very well)
- Stuff from other methods that could be useful in my game

If guys are willing to meetup let me know because I'm out sarging 3-5 days a week so I have no problem meeting up.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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