"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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NYC - Manhattan Wings needed

Debonair

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Hi All, Debonair here, I just moved from the South to NYC to start my career... as a consequence of working so much with a bunch of older people (only analyst and person under 50 in the firm) I have yet to meet a bunch of guys/girls my age.. I'm building my network but it takes time.

Looking for some guys who liek to go out.balls to the wall and try and meet people.. of course the idea here is to get to know some lovely ladies... I used to be big into the pick up **** but have eased off a bit in the last year... I've had a threesome (no bull**** and no they were not prostitutes) and hooked up with plenty of girls.. but NYC is a new ball game.. so it time to practice up and get my game face on and do this.. anyone care to join me in my endeavor?

~Debonair
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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