"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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NYC: Looking for a wingman/friend - NOT a pickup artist

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Hey All,

I just got out of a 4.5 year relationship a month ago and I am back in the dating game. So far, I've had 1 date from meeting a girl in a coffee shop and 1 from online dating -- both didn't work out but I learned a thing or two.

I am looking for a wingman that is from the five boroughs or NYC. I am 41, normal, extraverted, very confident, an established business owner and have a very good outlook for life and myself. Ideally, I'd like someone who is also normal to accompany me on my outings and isn't going to try the latest tactic he learned in a book in order to meet Woman.

Let me know if that is you and let's rock!
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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