"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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NYC, Long Island NY Area - Wingman to Sarge With (2024)

nappy101

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Hello,

I'm reaching out to see if there is anyone in the NYC and Long Island, NY area (Brooklyn, Queens, Nassau, Suffolk) or nearby that is available to sarge. I try to go out from Wednesday to Saturday each week, and I'm happy to be a wing for anyone who is willing to get in the field and learn with me.

It's a bit sad how difficult it is to find a wingman these days. This is especially true given how the old PUA forums are more or less dead. A pendulum shift, and bad luck, I guess. I recall the days when it seemed to be a bit easier to connect with people on this same journey. Let's win the game together.

Cheers.

Nap
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Fanboy

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Hi nap, I would love to come game some time. I work threw out the city Long Island area for my job so I could easily meet up after work some time. I just need to know what time and location.
 

nappy101

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Hi nap, I would love to come game some time. I work threw out the city Long Island area for my job so I could easily meet up after work some time. I just need to know what time and location.
I just PM'd you. Looking forward to hearing back from you. Cheers, and happy holidays.
 
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