"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I am working on inner game program to work with motivated members

This is first time Im designing for helping newmembers
pros,you will have ultimate inner game
cons,you will have to endure role play of cynism,unexpected things and Build your patience and your cool

be over 21 years,and meet in nyc in few weeks
pm me with your contact info and I will setup good time sunday evening in dec

Goal:to build strong inner self ,Strong Frame.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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carrot said:
I am working on inner game program to work with motivated members

This is first time Im designing for helping newmembers
pros,you will have ultimate inner game
cons,you will have to endure role play of cynism,unexpected things and Build your patience and your cool

be over 21 years,and meet in nyc in few weeks
pm me with your contact info and I will setup good time sunday evening in dec

Goal:to build strong inner self ,Strong Frame.
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