"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
NY Weather Girl Rape
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
TheBucketOfTruth
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At least she didn't implicate anyone in the lie as with the Duke lacrosse case. This way she'll only ruin her own life rather than any innocent men. She'll probably get off with a slap on the wrist for this one. People are so selfish. Every fake rape report sullies the entire act of reporting it and weakens the claims of countless other women who go through this horrendous experience.
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^^^ This.TheBucketOfTruth said:At least she didn't implicate anyone in the lie as with the Duke lacrosse case. This way she'll only ruin her own life rather than any innocent men. She'll probably get off with a slap on the wrist for this one. People are so selfish. Every fake rape report sullies the entire act of reporting it and weakens the claims of countless other women who go through this horrendous experience.
I know a girl who told me she was raped by two illegal hispanics. She never called the cops and never press charges, but she did tell all of her friends and got a ton of sympathy. She got mad at me because I, being the immature jerk that I am said, File a police report or STFU. Get counselling or STFU. Eventually she just STFU'd about it. Oh and did I mention we were having sex off and on at the time and at no time did she ever act like she didn't want to have sex after the alleged rape? She was as egar as ever. In the back of my mind I always thought it was a ploy to get sympathy and maybe get me to commit to her.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Wow really?spider_007 said:
This is really weird. I would imagine that you would have to
be a pretty f'd up person to do something like this.
So I would think if you worked your way up to actually being on television
where the competition is fierce, I would guess that you're
more or less a sane person.
I was wrong.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
if you remember, about what... maybe a year and a half ago I met a girl in AA who just took to me, gave me the whole " i need to get healthy" bit for my recovery, followed me to the gym, which then lead to going to subway and **** like that, etc. asked me to go bowling with her one night, i was frank and told her look, i'm taken and my GF would not like that. don't mind taking you to the gym and **** but, i have to draw the line.
2 days later, police is at my door. she told the police, and everyone at our AA homer group that I tried to "force myself on her". i never touched, let alone kissed the woman.
becuase she is pretty cute, even the people who knew she was full of it, wouldn't call her on it. most just believed her. i left the home group and evenaully AA over that.
2 days later, police is at my door. she told the police, and everyone at our AA homer group that I tried to "force myself on her". i never touched, let alone kissed the woman.
becuase she is pretty cute, even the people who knew she was full of it, wouldn't call her on it. most just believed her. i left the home group and evenaully AA over that.
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Falcon25 said:There are a lot of mentally ill people in this country. I would assume that if it weren't for prescription medications, we would see a lot more of this.
It's pretty sad when you think about it. Sh1t like this didn't happen with our grandfather's generation. Liberalism is the cause.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not here to bash liberals; progressives have brought a lot of good to this country. This just happens to be a byproduct.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I reckon this is an extreme form of tactic many women use to gain sympathy/attract attention, if you look at the females you have met in your life, there wil always be those with the sob stories about how such and such treated them sooo badly, embelleshing and distorting the truth to their benefit.
the first victim of war is the truth
the first victim of war is the truth