"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Nutrition Questions

cuzza

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Let's start by saying that my diet is shocking. Not masses of fast food, just nowhere near good enough for putting on muscle - minimal protein, massive carbs, lack of veg, etc. Which brings me onto...

Obviously, calories over maintenance = weight gain + muscle gain, calories under maintenance = weight loss.

However, if I'm currently getting in say 50g protein a day, and I up this to 150g, will it make any difference on muscle building, or will it simply decrease the recovery time needed? To gain any form of added muscle, will I definitely need to bump up the calories?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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wolf116

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still not enough!!! that's my breakfast. read the sticky.
Especially threads by EFFORT and Warboss Alex
 

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Any caloric surplus will lead to weight gain. The average person's caloric surplus leads to weight gained in the form of fat. A caloric surplus with the minimum protein requirement for building muscle in conjunction with a decent weightlifting program, will build certain amounts of muscle and certain amounts of fat. Getting more calories from protein and less from carbs skews the weight gain in the direction of muscle instead of fat.

Some body types are more prone to fat gain than others, and for these people, lowering carbs whilst increasing protein and fat will put on more muscle than fat. Your diet should provide you with enough calories and protein to build muscle, with as many carbs as you can tolerate without getting fat. What is your body type?
 

cuzza

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You have 150g of protein for breakfast? **** me.

Also, none of you guys really answered my question, although Simon gave some decent information.

What I'm asking is (may have been unlear earlier), if my calories stay at a maintenance level, but I get in a solid amount of protein that I previously wasn't getting, what will happen? Faster recovery? A bit of muscle growth? What?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Axcell

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wolf116 said:
No not really. But close to it some days
How can you consume 150 grams of protein in one meal?
The most I am able to consume is 50 grams per meal, times 4 meals = 200 grams. (1-2 grams per pound of body weight is recommended, so this is fine for me.)

Also, if your body is not used to you eating that much, do you just force foods down, or start selecting foods that are very high in protein, and only eat those? I tend to fill myself up rather fast.. it's a problem.
 

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Axcell said:
How can you consume 150 grams of protein in one meal?
The most I am able to consume is 50 grams per meal, times 4 meals = 200 grams. (1-2 grams per pound of body weight is recommended, so this is fine for me.)

Also, if your body is not used to you eating that much, do you just force foods down, or start selecting foods that are very high in protein, and only eat those? I tend to fill myself up rather fast.. it's a problem.
I am supposed to eat 60g's for each meal at 6 meal each day, thats 350g a day. But I have been slack/poor lately and just have a massive breakfast and skip morning tea.
 

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wel lthats not close to 150g, that would be double what ur supposed to eat basiclly. Plus my friends personal trainers who were both bodybuilders say that your body only processes 42g a meal, idk if theres any truth to that but thats what they say.
 

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navyseal2101 said:
wel lthats not close to 150g, that would be double what ur supposed to eat basiclly. Plus my friends personal trainers who were both bodybuilders say that your body only processes 42g a meal, idk if theres any truth to that but thats what they say.
I was sure it was 34.5678g...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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