"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Nuther Field Report: Rave. You'll like this one.

ThunderMaverick

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So I do bartending.

Yes.

So I'm bartending at a rave that's being hosted at the great western forum. (anyone who knows L.A. knows the forum.) It's basically a giant arena where our basketball team use to play several years ago. Nice atmosphere, half naked chicks galore. (I felt sorry for the old worn out bartender guys sitting there oogling.) The whole night I'm being hit on by various drunken women and making lot's of tips. There were two girls in particular who kept coming back for water at my stand. 2 very cute Asian chicks who weren't drinking at all. Come to find out both of them were 18 and 19. The 18 year old kept telling me "you're so nice. You're not like the other guys here. There was a guy trying to take a picture of my ass a few minutes ago."

I'm thinking "you're at a rave and you're dressed in lingerie what else can a perverted guy do besides not actually touch you, stupid?"

She kept calling me sexy and bla bla bla every time they came to my stand. The 19 year old actually came up to me by herself and told me the 18 year old had a boyfriend. Oh if your boyfriend could see you admiring me right now I wonder if he'd have the same high opinion of you.

Long story short I got the 19 year olds number and danced with her after work on the dance floor. I think I could have gotten fired if the supervisors caught me. LOL I'm on the floor in my dress suit dancing with half naked girls. I was a total fish out of water. I don't club. I don't dance. This is absolutely not my scene. I'm a *makes L 7 gesture*

The thing about it though as soon as we hit the floor she was just...grinding away..grinding grinding. I had no rhythm at all but then a light bulb went off in my head.


"Ok, I recognize this kind of grinding. *wheels start slowly turning* I do it when I have sex. So I'll just...grind on her like I'm having sex with her. BY GEORGE I THINK I'VE GOT IT!"

It worked. We were in sync. The harder I got the harder she'd grind and it was wonderful.


I've had kind of a dry spell for the past few months (the other incident a month or so ago doesn't count. Ewww.) but when I was dancing with her and touching her skin and pulling those tight little daisy dukes harder against my c0ck I said to myself; "I can fu<k this little girl. I want to fu<k her, so I think I will." There was no moral tug o' war going on in my head. She was very attractive and she thought the same of me. We danced for only a few minutes before saying her and her friend had to leave (by the way the 18 year old did not talk to me or even try to look at me when we were dancing. Her boyfriend was there too. LOL)

Afterwards she told me to call her so I will soon.


It's been a long time but man..in that moment my eyes just glazed over and sex took control of me. I felt like a beast. The way I ran my fingers down her slightly clammy arms and waist. I enjoyed her sweat and smell. I could just taste her. I was completely enraptured by her.

I HAVE TO FU<K THIS GIRL!!!!!!!!!!! GRAAAAAAAAAARRRRRGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHH

THE BEAST IS BACK!!! I WANT TO TASTE SOME FLUIDS!! ARRRGHHH!!

*Woof Woof*


Oh another thing. I wouldn't get into a relationship with a girl who clubs or is a raver. Not at all! Dancing at clubs like that..my God. I just wanted to put it in her right then and there.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Zerix

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Create Reality said:
Was this the giant village massive?
Nope, it was the Almost Better Than Sex rave :)
That's the one that takes place in The Forum
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Zerix

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ThunderMaverick said:
Does it happen often, Zerix?
the rave or your situation at the rave? lol

that particular rave (ABTS) is only once a year, though there are plenty more that happen (Giant Village just this saturday night, DJ Tiesto in aug, Nocturnal wonderland in sept, etc.)
 

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Looks like they oughta call it the "Almost the Same As Sex" rave.

Ah, to be 20ish....
 
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