Do you guys ever get that feeling that the numbers you've bagged in the club that you don't feel like calling/texting? I got like 5 numbers from the party and I don't feel like calling either one of em.. probably due to the fact that I already forgotten how each girl looks lol... damn alcohol...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Numbers from the club
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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They are worthless anyway and will lead to nowhere,if such girl liked you enough for a date she would probably did something in the club to make you remember at least her name.
Many girls you meet in a dark environment while under the effect of alchool seems attractive, in day light and clear mind they are not anymore or at least not enough to push to the effort of dating them.
I know plenty of girls which I dont even bother to write on facebook cause they dont pass the "effort line" but wouldnt mind to mess up with at the club if we happen to be there at the same time.
Many girls you meet in a dark environment while under the effect of alchool seems attractive, in day light and clear mind they are not anymore or at least not enough to push to the effort of dating them.
I know plenty of girls which I dont even bother to write on facebook cause they dont pass the "effort line" but wouldnt mind to mess up with at the club if we happen to be there at the same time.