Numbers, Dating, DRY SPELL

[jgoodz]

Okay, first off let me say that I've been on a NO Fap diet... if you're not familar with it... No Fapping there are a lot of health benefits, like my testostorne has definitely boosted which increased my energy waking up in the morning and my work outs at the gym, my desires, motivation and overall mood has been great! I'm going on almost a month now.
But here's my predicament... I'm starting to get really frustrated with the dating scene lately. I try and go out pretty much every weekend with my wingmen friends... and I have to say we do very well on talking to women. I get a numbers and yet I fail miserably once acquired. Girls even tell me to take down their numbers and yet when we text i get NO RESPONSE!
It seems to keep repeating and I don't know what I'm really doing wrong here. My wingman friend on the other hand (who i might add is model type handsome which girls just drool over) he can just stand there and look pretty and he'll get numbers.... and these brauds start sending him naked photos the same night. I CAN'T EVEN A GET A RESPONSE! To a 'Hi, how are you?' lol
I'm thinking just a bad luck streak... but i'm in a real dry spell here and i'm starting to get frustrated. Any advice would be much appreciated. Thanks!

 

[pdx1138]

Just go with the flow.

It's been many of our experiences that at some point we get nowhere then suddenly we're flooded with interested options.

Don't get frustrated, it's the nature of the game currently.
Just keep at it.

 

[synergy1]

I had the same problem and was told that the reason was becasue I was outcome dependent. It meant that my entire evening was based on my success with women. What I did to fix this was to focus on going out with friends and having a good time and thats all. Slowly, it became easier to get womens numbers and what not. Women can sniff out desperation, so exuding any sign that you need to get with a women will probably hinder you. Conversely, as soon as you imply that you don't really give a crap about getting with them, this is their cue to try and get you interested.

I hate saying it, but to get sex you need to have gotten sex. Its like money, so sometimes you have to start somewhere. As soon as you break that 'cold spell', its easier to keep things rolling. So for now, don't focus on breaking that cold spell and say 'fvck it, I am going to go out and have a fun evening'. If women come around, socialize with them but don't really try too much to get with them like your buddy. He's already got the ball rolling, so don't try and compare yourself to him.

These things come and go. Don't kick yourself because you are in a rut. everyone has ups and downs.

 

[konmai]

Just go with the flow.

It's been many of our experiences that at some point we get nowhere then suddenly we're flooded with interested options.

Don't get frustrated, it's the nature of the game currently.
Just keep at it.

pretty much this. i'm in a same dry spell whereas just last week i was flooded. hard to come off that high to suddenly having no options again.

 

[Colossus]

When it rains it pours. When it's dry it is bone dry.

Kinda the way it goes. Synergy had a really good take. Dont try to force it, you'll only make it worse.

 

[georgie24]

when you hit a dry spell crank up the buisness and slide into god mode and start sarging, you think women are going to look for you?

get out there!