"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Number grab and run

sxyazsin

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OK I'm not very happy with my luck right now. I had a substantial 11am appointment in 10 minutes to make, and when I pass my normal bus stop on my bike I see my perfect type of woman waiting there.
I will totally miss this thing and lose the grade if I stop, but I do it anyway. I post up my bike, walk up to her and ask, "do you know how long the bus will be?" This way I'll make it on time and get this lady's number. She says, "I was just walking up when the bus passed. Don't worry, I'll be late to class too." ****!!!!!!, now I can't stick around.

I just wanted to break every rule I've ever learned and say, "hey I have an appointment to be at in 10 minutes, and I know you don't know me and I don't know you, but I would really like to call you sometime, because I would like to know you." Does anyone have experience with this working? Next time I'm going to try it no matter what, because I've been putting in seduction 'formula' after 'formula' and I just ****ed up what could have been a good thing.
She had been giving me cute little smiles and signals and everything. ****.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Id say in a situation like that. What do you got to loose?
 

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IM0001 said:
Id say in a situation like that. What do you got to loose?
Exactly. Moreover, its all in the delivery. I have seen 15 sec number closes. ;)
 

AKA FLEX

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IM0001 said:
Id say in a situation like that. What do you got to loose?
Exactly. I'm not sure why doing so would be "breaking the rules," and I'm also pretty sure "the rules" don't say to just bail without establishing a way to ever see or talk to the girl again.
 
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