"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Number grab and run

sxyazsin

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OK I'm not very happy with my luck right now. I had a substantial 11am appointment in 10 minutes to make, and when I pass my normal bus stop on my bike I see my perfect type of woman waiting there.
I will totally miss this thing and lose the grade if I stop, but I do it anyway. I post up my bike, walk up to her and ask, "do you know how long the bus will be?" This way I'll make it on time and get this lady's number. She says, "I was just walking up when the bus passed. Don't worry, I'll be late to class too." ****!!!!!!, now I can't stick around.

I just wanted to break every rule I've ever learned and say, "hey I have an appointment to be at in 10 minutes, and I know you don't know me and I don't know you, but I would really like to call you sometime, because I would like to know you." Does anyone have experience with this working? Next time I'm going to try it no matter what, because I've been putting in seduction 'formula' after 'formula' and I just ****ed up what could have been a good thing.
She had been giving me cute little smiles and signals and everything. ****.
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Id say in a situation like that. What do you got to loose?
 

daygameguy

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IM0001 said:
Id say in a situation like that. What do you got to loose?
Exactly. Moreover, its all in the delivery. I have seen 15 sec number closes. ;)
 

AKA FLEX

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IM0001 said:
Id say in a situation like that. What do you got to loose?
Exactly. I'm not sure why doing so would be "breaking the rules," and I'm also pretty sure "the rules" don't say to just bail without establishing a way to ever see or talk to the girl again.
 
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