"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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number closed, now what?

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Kevansta

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So I've been working with this one girl, and I've seen huge signs from her. For example, she'll laugh at nearly everything I say, and she's usually all smiles and giggles when I talk to her. The only problem was that we hardly ever worked on the same day and time, so I'd been holding off on getting her number.

Today, after I got back from a day out swimming with some friends, I went into the break room at work just as she got done. I started up some small chat, and eventually I got her number by saying I might be going to [swimming place] again next week, and i might need someone to work for me.

She doesn't have my number yet, and talkin to my friends, they both said that I should wait at least 2 days before trying to contact her again. Is that good? Also, how should I give her my number?

Another thing, right after she gave me her number, she asked if I remembered her name... What does this mean?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Stop overanalysing too much. "Ooooh she farted, does it mean anything?"

Besides you already answered your question in your own post, mate. You are going to that swimming place, call her closer to the date and tell her to come with you.

(Y) good luck
 
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Kevansta

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Whats the best way to go about giving her my number? I was thinking of sending a text. Also, how soon is too soon?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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