Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Number closed girl with a boyfriend

PickSix

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I will try my best to keep this concise.

Ok I see a girl and I really like her looks, so I number close her after some conversation.

Call her next night we talk for an hour, than we text a fair bit too and she is flirting a fair bit, she has mentioned she has a boyfriend to me once.

Examples of flirting in a text message:

PickSix

" I am going to call this Portuguese girl tonight, I wonder if she wants me to"

Her

" I am pretty sure she wants you too"

Phone conversation was like

Pick Six

" What would your boyfriend say if he found out we were talking"

Her

" He would be very angry"

Pick Six

" Are you going to tell him we talk"

Her

" Nope"



We have scheduled meet up next week and when I said lets do something on a particular day, she even asked do you want to hang day or night.

Ps. I number closed her when my mum was close by and she has said to me too on the phone " Your mums really hot " .... Never heard that one before.


Anyway

is this girl interested? By the way I am at least 3 levels of good looking above her boyfriend.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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She sounds interested. But some girls just flirt for the attention.

Get her out one-on-one and see if she steps up her game. Once you try to escalate, she's gonna pull the "But I have a boyfriend" card. That's just a sh!t test. You just brush that off like it's no big deal, and keep escalating.

After that point, either she proves herself to be a real prospect, or just a girl looking for an orbiter. The key is - don't get frustrated during the first few times when she pulls the "boyfriend" card during your date. She has to do that to make herself feel like she's not a s1ut. She has to convince herself that she was seduced, and that she didn't actively go out looking to cheat on her man....Even though she did.
 

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hi5 for you brother... on a side note can you pm me your mums number ;P
 

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Pick Six

" What would your boyfriend say if he found out we were talking"

Her

" He would be very angry"

Pick Six

" Are you going to tell him we talk"

Judge women by their actions.

Who cares what her bf might be thinking?

Why focus on him, when you should be focusing on closing her.

Assume the sale, she's showing strong interest, close her.









PIMP
 

Wolfgang D

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What age range are we talking about here?

After circa 27, pretty much every attractive and high-quality girl will be in a relationship. If a guy wants such a girl he will have to go after those who are in relationships. Often a girl will stay in a relationship even when she has decided to leave, for the comfort, the sharing, practical considerations, and the status. It isn't wrong for a guy to show interest; just flirt a bit, see if she reciprocates. It's not like you are drugging her. If she isn't interested, simply move on. Most women will understand.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Iceberg said:
She sounds interested. But some girls just flirt for the attention.

Get her out one-on-one and see if she steps up her game. Once you try to escalate, she's gonna pull the "But I have a boyfriend" card. That's just a sh!t test. You just brush that off like it's no big deal, and keep escalating.

After that point, either she proves herself to be a real prospect, or just a girl looking for an orbiter. The key is - don't get frustrated during the first few times when she pulls the "boyfriend" card during your date. She has to do that to make herself feel like she's not a s1ut. She has to convince herself that she was seduced, and that she didn't actively go out looking to cheat on her man....Even though she did.

I am going to just hang out and have a good time and let it all come naturally on the date. Not going to force anything and just be the cool guy and she should than want me.

Stort_Brød said:
hi5 for you brother... on a side note can you pm me your mums number ;P
Where abouts in Australia you from? I am from the Illawarra/Wollongong

Pimp-sicle said:
Judge women by their actions.

Who cares what her bf might be thinking?

Why focus on him, when you should be focusing on closing her.

Assume the sale, she's showing strong interest, close her.









PIMP
Your right I will keep you guys updated on the situation.



Wolfgang D said:
What age range are we talking about here?

After circa 27, pretty much every attractive and high-quality girl will be in a relationship. If a guy wants such a girl he will have to go after those who are in relationships. Often a girl will stay in a relationship even when she has decided to leave, for the comfort, the sharing, practical considerations, and the status. It isn't wrong for a guy to show interest; just flirt a bit, see if she reciprocates. It's not like you are drugging her. If she isn't interested, simply move on. Most women will understand.

She is 18 I am 25. I look a lot younger which I love. Any girl I think that hangs out with another guy behind her boyfriend back consistently one on one, must like the guy.
 
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