"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Number closed, but found out her age

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grinder said:
Don’t put yourself in the grave just yet. My number one plate right now is 19. I’m 48. I have to suppress a giggle when I’m told how immature, inappropriate and “wrong” it is. Yeah, I feel terrible. Ha ha.

Now, back to the poster: obviously, age doesn’t mean sh*t. Sounds like an excuse. And on getting a number and not calling: what, you afraid to hurt her feelings? If you are not interested you are wasting your time and hers. She will appreciate it more if you don't call when you are not interested.

You sure have done a lot of thinking (reading her blog?) before you even see her. If you want to find out about her: hum, how about, um, talking to her about it?

OH, get more numbers. They won’t seem so golden when you have a jar full of them.
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BSmeter going off the hook.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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BSmeter going off the hook.
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Aw, crap, you caught me. I’m actually a 17 yo lesbian girl who gets her jollies fooling you old farts.

But, let’s redirect our focus back to the poster, shall we?

If I actually were a “mature man” I could answer Meleth’s question about calling all the numbers I get.

The answer is NO, I don’t, and many here don’t as well. Don’t feel obligated to call just because you got the number.
 
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