"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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LMFAO

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I just day gamed a HB8 on a 6 hour flight home. She loved every second of it. At one point she took a picture of the two of us together. She somewhat apologised for it, saying "you don't think it's weird do you". I threw in a couple of negs and appeared disinterested in parts.

As we landed I checked off GALNUC (the Roosh framework to get the number) and told her to put her number in my phone. I told her to be excited when I call and reply to my texts with smiley faces and exclamation marks.

Shame she was on a transfer flight. We won't be in the same city for at least another month.

What's my next move and should I even bother?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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LongLostFriend

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Keep the plate spinning but keep her very low priority. A month is a long time after only a plane flight.
 

LMFAO

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I sent her a message. No reply. I can see that she saw the message. Why in the world did she give me her number then? I think she also lied about being in another country.

Number deleted. Next.
 

Peaks&Valleys

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Deleted....already?? Dam.

Here's the deal, any girl worth anything is going to have some type of life already going on. Give her at least a chance to respond... fvck. What if she was driving, or working, at the movies, or with some dude she's dating.
 

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By deleting her number it makes you seem bitter. She practically isn't even at the point where she CAN be deleted. What's next, you'll dump her?

If you both hit it off you and she is romantically interested then a month is not too long (but it is the limit).

4 weeks is the point where their scent has completely worn off so you tend to forget them.

You'd need to be especially memorable to her but if she starts texting a lot of questions you might get to plan the next date, but it's unlikely.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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