Number Close, now what?

[Leah]

I met a guy on my course in Uni as we were both waiting for the same delayed train. I initiated conversation and we chatted for the next half hour until the train arrived. I sat next to him and asked if it was OK for me to sit there, he said yes. I used some mild Neg Hitting about a pink hat he said he owned and we had a laugh about shared acquaintances as well as discussing film and music tastes.
The train was terminating before our stop so he called his friend to get a ride home then asked me how I'd get back to which I replied 'dunno, guess I'll walk!' and he offered me a ride home with him.
We both went to the Chip Shop for a can of Coke and waited for his mates. In the car he didn't say much but he did giggle when I told his friend that I liked his pink shirt (we'd already had a laugh on the train about pink shirts).
Nearing my house I said 'give us your number then, babe' and he typed 'Me' into his phone, handed it to me and I took his number.

When do I text or call him and did I do a good job??

 

[Hound_of_Love]

When do I text or call him and did I do a good job?? [/B]

Whenever you like and I'll tell you in the morning.

Seriously though. You need help with this? You're a woman. You were born with the rulebook and a headstart.

 

[NewMan]

When do I text or call him

Texting is for chumps who don't have the b#lls to call - or who can't carry on a decent convo.

Call him.

If he's on the same course as you though, you will see him in class will you not? So why not just go grab lunch with him?

did I do a good job??

it would have been better if he had approached you

 

[Leah]

I agree, but I think he's a quiet boy. Good plan, I'll see if he wants to grab lunch tomorrow

 

[Desdinova]

This is kinda weird, a woman using a neg-hit on a guy? You sound like a "Rules Girl" candidate.

Guys seem to work a little bit different than women. You can call him whenever the fvck you want because you won't have to worry much about coming off as desperate or him losing interest. The typical guy will wonder when you're going to call, even if you don't for weeks.

As for how good you did, you did fine. Few women initiate conversation and flat out ask for the number.

 

[Leah]

Well I don't want to scare the boy!

 

[Desdinova]

Well I don't want to scare the boy!

As long as you don't come off as posessive and controlling, you'll be fine. Take him out on a fun date and he'll warm right up to you.

 

[Leah]

I'm neither of those things, thank the lord!I'll try my luck tomorrow casually, and hope he doesn't LJBF me!

 

[catch]

well
if a random girl sat by me and started taking the piss out of MY hat...!!!!
i would think shes a nutter and find an excuse to leave the train quietly!

 

[Leah]

I was already talking to him at this point, I don't randomly approach strangers and rip the p1ss out of them, he wasn't actually wearing the hat at the time either. Read my posts before you jump in with useless banter.

 

[catch]

ha ha ha, just a joke :crackup:

 

[Leah]

Well, he was in the same Practical class as me today, I was a little late and went to the back (it's a small room) and he passed me a stool. We were split into groups of 8 so I asked if there was room for me to join his and he said yes. We had a bit of banter in the class when the lecturer asked me if I'd used a camcorder before where I blushed and said 'maybe!' and he laughed loudly. Then we left to get the train and he thought I had another class and went, so I shouted to wait up and he did. We walked to the train and had more banter, I got some Kino in and he Neg Hitted my car! I asked him what he was doing tonight (I'm working) and tomorrow then said I was going to invite myself but his activities were too boring.
We got off the train and I said 'so when are you going to let me take you out then?' in a statement/question way and he seemed shocked so I said 'ah, I want to take you out on a date!' and he said he's busy this weekend (true - he already told me he's away watching the match) and mentioned something about being free next week.
We then had to go different ways to get home and he stopped, looked really baffled and I said 'bye then, see you!' and walked off.

What's that all about?? I still haven't contacted him on this mobile.

 

[arlanda]

Do you by any chance have a younger cute little sister? Let's say 17-18 years old? Lol, girl you are so straight forward. I like that

 

[Leah]

I think I should see what happens tomorrow again, then I'll take it from there. I'm so indecisive!

 

[Leah]

Hahaha! No, I just want to play to win.

 

[Leah]

I would call him and suggest he invite me to his but the fool lives with his parents and there's no way am I having him at mine because I don't have a TV so I think it's feel awkward. Plus, I drive and he doesn't.

 

[Leah]

Shezzler, your inbox is full! Ok, I just text him asking what's on the TV, I'm bored out of my mind! Leah x

 

[Leah]

Hahhaa now come on you behave! He replied within 5 minutes saying 'Not really, unless you like kids programs. I'm going back to bed for an hour anyway, I'm knackered. What time you going to London then?'.

 

[Leah]

Not very constructive, are you?

 

[Leah]

I text him asking him if he wants to catch up before I go to work, he said he'd just eaten so I asked if he's playing hard to get and he replied that he thought I was just asking as mates. Gah, what a chump! Who's game is this?!!!