"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Number close in disco and then i ****ed up

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Hi guys yesterday in disco i was stopped by a girl... Incredible ahahha
She knew my father ecc so we talked a bit i went straight with a lot of kino and she accepted it really well! I got her number fast and then when we parted we gave 2 kiss on the cheek after that we stayed really close for two sec so i kissed her!! But she didnt put the tongue and kinda rejected it!! Then we stayed chatting a little bit like nothing happened but she had to go home so i couldn't do anything else!!
What do u think about it? What i did wrong and when and what i should text her??
 

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I got her number fast and then when we parted we gave 2 kiss on the cheek after that we stayed really close for two sec so i kissed her!!

Should have went straight for the kiss on the lips in the first place. Its awkward to say goodbye, kiss her on the cheeks, theennnn say eh nevermind i want to makeout.

Then we stayed chatting a little bit like nothing happened but she had to go home so i couldn't do anything else!!

Again....if you say goodbye, leave. Dont hover and become clingy.

what i should text her??

Extra dose of waiting, since you came off clingy in my opinion. Id say wait 4 days then hit her up with a text about something funny that night(crazy guy dancing, funny topic you talked about, etc). One sentence period. Hit send. Few exchanges, then ask her when shes free to get together....game over.
 
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So your advice is to dont loose time with words anda after 4 days ask her fast to go out
I'll try that :)

Btw my speech was not that good coz i still have in mind the girl who ljbf me...dunno if u read my older topic
 
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So your advice is to dont loose time with words

Where the he11 did you get that from?

No. I said if your going to go for the kiss, man up and do it. She probably sensed you wanted to but got scared and went for kisses on the cheek....which is why she rejected your kiss.

Btw my speech was not that good coz i still have in mind the girl who ljbf me...dunno if u read my older topic

Thats irrelevant and has no bearing on this girl. And no, nor do i want to now.
 
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