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[S.Y.L]

Ok. Short story.
1. I Sorta know this girl in english.
2. I talk to her a few times
3. I'm 95% sure she likes me, and I like her pretty much
4. Shes talking to me more often and always smiles at me, and laughs. Good Stuff.

So I started talking to her like a week ago if that, out of random. Since its High School, should I keep talking to her for a while longer, or should I ask her out right away, or should I ask her to hang out a few times first, then ask her out, so shes comfortable.

So, I got everything down, now what. With DJ techniques, was actually really easy. I want her to be my GF, and have a LTR, so How should I ask her out, theres a halloween dance in a week or two, Ask her to go to that with me???

The town we live in sucks, so what should I do? Movie, I know you guys say something fun, but honestly, I can't think of something fun here.

 

[Yoko Kurama]

It is very strange. I could think of a few ways to solve your problem, however if I were in the same situation, I cannot think at all. Weird eh? I'd have someone else answer you, to be honest you would be better off at the moment.

 

[jeffthechef]

hm same thing with me..i thought about just asking her out of nowhere.cause i'm sure she's interested..BUT..i didnt know if she had a bf or not..my friend's gf is in her grade..but she's not sure...SO instead of asking her to hang without having spoken to her...NOW my plan is to talk to her for about a week or two and then taking her out somewhere..OR until i find out she's single whichever comes first..

Hm movies is ok if you're good with kino at the movies..and make sure you do more than just movies such as dinner..cause you need some talking in there...
minigolf, zoo, botanical gardens, nature trails, golfing range, park, picnic, fishing, beach

hope that helps

 

[S.Y.L]

Yeah, well I know shes single for sure, shes in my grade as well.

 

[(JJ)]

dude this is weak.


ask her out to do something cheap.

got a starbucks around? everyone has those! go get some coffee and if you're lucky and your local bookstore is connected to the coffee shop, you can grab a coffee and browse some books. dont spend so much on a first date.

and if there's no bookstore, go for a walk! first date isnt to teach her to be a gold digger. it's to learn about if the two of you might be compatible!

 

[S.Y.L]

1. I cannot stand coffee
2. Bookstore....thats one of the most boring things I could think of...

She hates schoolwork, and isnt a smart kid, I doubt she likes books.

What about, inviting her to walk to a place with me down the street a bit, and like buy her ice cream or somthing? then hang out for a bit

 

[TheCommonreactor]

take her to go see "Nick and Norah's Infinite Playlist" its a good date movie and its pretty funny too. you dont need to be the greatest of pals to go see a movie together, plus itl probs get her thinking of you as more of BF material than friend material

just my thoughts, do what u want

 

[(JJ)]

1. I cannot stand coffee
2. Bookstore....thats one of the most boring things I could think of...

She hates schoolwork, and isnt a smart kid, I doubt she likes books.

What about, inviting her to walk to a place with me down the street a bit, and like buy her ice cream or somthing? then hang out for a bit

lol alright. i love the bookstore and coffee. im kinda a nerd and sometimes go for smart girls

 

[S.Y.L]

take her to go see "Nick and Norah's Infinite Playlist" its a good date movie and its pretty funny too. you dont need to be the greatest of pals to go see a movie together, plus itl probs get her thinking of you as more of BF material than friend material

just my thoughts, do what u want

If I was going to do the movie thing, thats what I was thinking of haha.

If I do end up doing this, should I do the cliche arm around her thing, and then on the way out of the theatre, hold her hand?

 

[S.Y.L]

bump for epic justice

 

[Tekniq]

bump for epic justice

Bump: grow some balls and a mind of your own.

 

[Tekniq]

lol alright. i love the bookstore and coffee. im kinda a nerd and sometimes go for smart girls

Its not even about being a nerd or anything of the sort, you want someone you can communicate with not an object who will be as smart as a plank and there like one.

 

[S.Y.L]

We are in high school, the bookstore thing may work when your older, I just cannot see that working at all.

 

[Tekniq]

Then you must be an idiot, because i have done it multiple times to great effect.... maybe you should up the ante by at least attempting to be more intellectual.

 

[(JJ)]

thus, we all have different preferences here on sosuave.... Tekniq i agree wholeheartedly with you. i consider myself an extremely intelligent individual, and i look for that in my women. occasionally, i'll even meet someone at a bookstore that ends up being cool. thats where women my type like to hang out. (yes, even in high school op) i love taking girls there cuz its cheap and fun for us. thats what i was thinking you were wanting out of this thread. BUT if your priorities are different, you adjust accordingly. (*cough* wolf and op *cough*) no need to bash tho

 

[S.Y.L]

I dunno, I might just do the cliche movie thing.

She likes me, she wont care that much if I do somthing typical.