"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Now this is an awesome technique!!!

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My second question wasnt answered.
"2) Whats your age? How do you rate yourself in the terms of appearance? (1-10 scale)"
I'm 26 years old. Attractiveness is subjective, but I'd rate myself somewhere between an 8 and 9.

I'm a big dude. I'm 6'5-235lbs-7 percent body fat. I guess it depends if you think that's attractive. I will say I'm better looking than a lot of the mugs behind their big talk on this board.

For about the third time--my pic>>>>>> http://profiles.yahoo.com/marine_sergeant0311

YOU CAN JUDGE FOR YOURSELF.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Mr_knowit_all said:
This has nothing to do with ego, or being able to take rejection. It's obvious you're delusional. If you do "cold approaches, spit game" I can assure you don't tap any ass.

You're just another big mouth blow hard who's too insecure to try something different.

The point of this board is to offer advice on how to pick up women, not how to project a false "ballsy" image. Only guys who have no balls do that.

By the way, half of your picture is covered up by the flash, and what is visible takes away from any credibility you have on here.

Not about rejection?

Then why did you write the following?

"4) It's less chance of rejection. More women will comply with this request than handing out their numbers on a cold approach. And even if she doesn't call back, who cares? You don't lose any face, and you didn't waste any time playing phone tag wondering if she likes you."

Seems it's alot about rejection, and you're inability to handle it.

Seems you're the one without credibility, as you just contridicted yourself.

Of course, you lost credibility when you posted your lame technique.

BTW, I've been in "the community" off and on for 10 years, and have tried lots of different things, and the one thing that works best is being a Man, and not being a passive little wuss who is so insecure that they can't handle direct rejection, so they hand out their # and hope their phone rings.

All the accusations you make sounds like a whole lot of projection.

BTW, where's your pic?
 

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Ooooh, big tough Marine.

Makes you even more pathetic that you can't do direct approaches and get digits.

6'3" - 235 and you're too scared to directly approach a 5'3" - 120 lb girl and get her digits?

Game over.

"Here's my number, please call me. I'll be waiting by the phone"
 

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This is an awesome technique, if you don't agree with this it is because you are a loser who can only get the hottest babes by the use of manipulation, if a large percentage of the hot babes that you meet are strongly attracted to you they will happily phone you to arrange the date, this is the best way to go if you are a true AlphaMale with confidence, charm, and, charisma. :up:
but y give her your number and wait for her to call? that's not confidence. if u have confidence, u dont sit and wait for people, hoping they will notice and talk to u, u go up and talk to them without giving a damn about what they think. if u really have confidence u will go for what u want, not sit and hope it comes to u. the tiger hunts it's prey, it doesnt wait for it, it chases it down.
 

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Mr_knowit_all said:
I'm 26 years old. Attractiveness is subjective, but I'd rate myself somewhere between an 8 and 9.

I'm a big dude. I'm 6'5-235lbs-7 percent body fat. I guess it depends if you think that's attractive. I will say I'm better looking than a lot of the mugs behind their big talk on this board.

For about the third time--my pic>>>>>> http://profiles.yahoo.com/marine_sergeant0311

YOU CAN JUDGE FOR YOURSELF.
In my honest opinion I think (in your case) your physical apperance
may contribute in women calling you. 26 is still fairly youthful and lean muscle does help to attract women.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Derek Flint said:
Not about rejection?

Then why did you write the following?

"4) It's less chance of rejection. More women will comply with this request than handing out their numbers on a cold approach. And even if she doesn't call back, who cares? You don't lose any face, and you didn't waste any time playing phone tag wondering if she likes you."

Seems it's alot about rejection, and you're inability to handle it.

Seems you're the one without credibility, as you just contridicted yourself.

Of course, you lost credibility when you posted your lame technique.

BTW, I've been in "the community" off and on for 10 years, and have tried lots of different things, and the one thing that works best is being a Man, and not being a passive little wuss who is so insecure that they can't handle direct rejection, so they hand out their # and hope their phone rings.

All the accusations you make sounds like a whole lot of projection.

BTW, where's your pic?
Obviously you're blind, and you can't read. You ugly fvcking geek.

1) I just posted my pic for the third time in the previous post. DUHHHH

2) I said the point of this board isn't about learning how to take rejection; it's about picking up chicks.

You're just a closet homo who tries to project an alpha male image so nobody finds out you have a small penis.
 

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Derek Flint said:
Ooooh, big tough Marine.

Makes you even more pathetic that you can't do direct approaches and get digits.

6'3" - 235 and you're too scared to directly approach a 5'3" - 120 lb girl and get her digits?

Game over.

"Here's my number, please call me. I'll be waiting by the phone"
Who said anyting about being scared of rejection you fvcking *** dump? It's about getting the girl to call you, not trying to prove you have balls by getting in some woman's face, and hassling her for her number.

You're a pathetic fvcking excuse. I bet your success rate with cold approaches is ZERO. Fvcking lame ass bytch.

"I have a small penis, and I prove my manhood by hounding unsuspecting bytches for their number."
 

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Mr_knowit_all said:
I happen to think the number exchange is a pretty good idea. I don't know if there are any "benefits" over your technique, mine just works better for me.
I think I can cite one. Giving out your number is conciderably faster. A number exchange isn't something you can do on the fly. You have to talk to the girl for a period of time before they'll be open to the idea of an exchange.

One thing I would add to your method that might give you a boost would be to have some buisness cards or the like with your name and number on it. It'll seem a bit more high class if you can string a short convo correctly before hand.
 

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I think I can cite one. Giving out your number is conciderably faster. A number exchange isn't something you can do on the fly. You have to talk to the girl for a period of time before they'll be open to the idea of an exchange.

One thing I would add to your method that might give you a boost would be to have some buisness cards or the like with your name and number on it. It'll seem a bit more high class if you can string a short convo correctly before hand.
I agree. That business card thing sounds like a great idea.
 

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Sounds like you're projecting once again.

And all that anger. I guess it's true that lack of ***** makes a man angry.

Again, you yourself stated that you are less likely to get rejected this way, so it's either you're reading comprehension skills suck, or your memory sucks, or maybe both.

But those were your words, on this forum, and this is what it all boils down to:

You're don't have the confidence to directly approach, and to be directly rejected.

Didn't the Marine's teach you anything about "No guts, no glory?"

So you choose passive rejection instead.

And again, it's sad when a self-proclaimed big tough Marine doesn't have the balls to walk up to a 5'3", 120 lb chick and directly approach her, display his interest, and ask, no tell her to give him her number.

Actually, phone numbers should be a last resort, and should only be taken after you've failed to F close her.

But you'd rather wait for the phone to ring...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Mr_knowit_all said:
2) I said the point of this board isn't about learning how to take rejecting; it's about picking up chicks.
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uhhhh, yes it is bro. u have to learn how to take rejection before u can be good at picking up girls.
 

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Mr_knowit_all said:
Who said anyting about being scared of rejection you fvcking *** dump? It's about getting the girl to call you, not trying to prove you have balls by getting in some woman's face, and hassling her for her number.

You're a pathetic fvcking excuse. I bet your success rate with cold approaches is ZERO. Fvcking lame ass bytch.

"I have a small penis, and I prove my manhood by hounding unsuspecting bytches for their number."

You yourself said it:

"4) It's less chance of rejection. More women will comply with this request than handing out their numbers on a cold approach. And even if she doesn't call back, who cares? You don't lose any face, and you didn't waste any time playing phone tag wondering if she likes you."

Scared of rejection.

Yeah, my success rate with cold approaches is zero, so that's why I'm rushing to use your "awesome technique" of handing out my number and waiting for the phone to ring.

As for the small penis comment, it again sounds like more projection on your part.

I mean, what kind of guy comes onto a this type of forum and talks about other guys penises?

And I don't "hound" anyone for thier number, as I usually get the digits without even asking for them.

It's called having game. Something you may understand someday.
 

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Derek Flint said:
Sounds like you're projecting once again.

And all that anger. I guess it's true that lack of ***** makes a man angry.

Again, you yourself stated that you are less likely to get rejected this way, so it's either you're reading comprehension skills suck, or your memory sucks, or maybe both.

But those were your words, on this forum, and this is what it all boils down to:

You're don't have the confidence to directly approach, and to be directly rejected.

Didn't the Marine's teach you anything about "No guts, no glory?"

So you choose passive rejection instead.

And again, it's sad when a self-proclaimed big tough Marine doesn't have the balls to walk up to a 5'3", 120 lb chick and directly approach her, display his interest, and ask, no tell her to give him her number.

Actually, phone numbers should be a last resort, and should only be taken after you've failed to F close her.

But you'd rather wait for the phone to ring...
My reading comprehension is fine; your grammar and sentence skills are another story.

Your small mind seems to be fixated on REJECTION. You seem to be under the impression that I'm advocating this technique because I'm afraid of the emotional hurt the comes with rejection.

That has nothing to do with it. I said YOU HAVE A LESS CHANCE OF BEING REJECTED....MEANING YOUR SUCCESS RATE IS HIGHER...I NEVER SAID ANYTHING ABOUT BEING AFRAID OF REJECTION...

I really think you're projecting your own fear of rejection. Because my post had nothing to do with THE FEAR OF REJECTION---ONLY MINIMIZING THE NUMBER OF TIMES YOU'RE REJECTED.

Did this sink in? Talk about reading comprehension......

By the way, when did I self-proclaim to be a "Big, Tough, Marine"?????

I am a Marine, but I don't think I ever mentioned that fact.

Somebody asked me my age, and if I thought I was attractive. I gave some physical statistics to give a better idea of my stature.

By thinking I was meaning something else, you're just showing how insecure you really are. I'm glad you think I'm a "big tough Marine"..because I am. Even though I never said it...YOU DID...
 

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Mr_knowit_all said:
Who said anyting about being scared of rejection you fvcking *** dump? It's about getting the girl to call you, not trying to prove you have balls by getting in some woman's face, and hassling her for her number.

You're a pathetic fvcking excuse. I bet your success rate with cold approaches is ZERO. Fvcking lame ass bytch.

"I have a small penis, and I prove my manhood by hounding unsuspecting bytches for their number."
so it is about getting in a woman's face and shoving ur number up her a$$? i guess AFC's need a method too.
 
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Mr_knowit_all said:
I'm 26 years old. Attractiveness is subjective, but I'd rate myself somewhere between an 8 and 9.

I'm a big dude. I'm 6'5-235lbs-7 percent body fat. I guess it depends if you think that's attractive. I will say I'm better looking than a lot of the mugs behind their big talk on this board.

For about the third time--my pic>>>>>> http://profiles.yahoo.com/marine_sergeant0311

YOU CAN JUDGE FOR YOURSELF.

if that pic is you, then you are a perfect 10 lookswise in the eyes of many girls.......you barely need game or anything else, your looks make you everything that women want
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Raikojo17 said:
uhhhh, yes it is bro. u have to learn how to take rejection before u can be good at picking up girls.
Problem is, this guys ego won't let him be directly rejected, because he couldn't handle it, so he gives out his number instead.

Passive rejection, but rejection nonetheless.

You would figure a 6'3", 235lb Marine wouldn't need validation from women, but it appears to be so.
 

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My reading comprehension is fine; your grammar and sentence skills are another story.

Your small mind seems to be fixated on REJECTION. You seem to be under the impression that I'm advocating this technique because I'm afraid of the emotional hurt the comes with rejection.

That has nothing to do with it. I said YOU HAVE A LESS CHANCE OF BEING REJECTED....MEANING YOUR SUCCESS RATE IS HIGHER...I NEVER SAID ANYTHING ABOUT BEING AFRAID OF REJECTION...

I really think you're projecting your own fear of rejection. Because my post had nothing to do with THE FEAR OF REJECTION---ONLY MINIMIZING THE NUMBER OF TIMES YOU'RE REJECTED.

Did this sink in? Talk about reading comprehension......

Go re-read point number 4 of your original post.

It has everything to do with rejection, and your fear of it, whether you wish to admit it or not.

You are choosing passive rejection over direct rejection, and it's obvious as to why, except maybe to you.

You are lessening your chance of rejection because you are afraid of rejection.

Like I said, it's obvious to just about everyone, except the oblivious.
 

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Derek Flint said:
Go re-read point number 4 of your original post.

It has everything to do with rejection, and your fear of it, whether you wish to admit it or not.

You are choosing passive rejection over direct rejection, and it's obvious as to why, except maybe to you.
I've read it many times. Obviously you can't read.

By the way, I'm 6'5, not 6'3....If you can't remember how tall I am, how are you going to pick out intricacies in my post?/??
 

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if that pic is you, then you are a perfect 10 lookswise in the eyes of many girls.......you barely need game or anything else, your looks make you everything that women want
I'm not fishing for compliments, but thank you.

I will say that my looks aren't all they're cut out to be. I do pull plenty of ass, but a fair number of women are intimidated by my size, not my looks.

I've been rejected more than a few times.
 
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sounds like some geek not a marine........seriously can anyone else imagine a huge muscle bound marine giving THAT kind of advice??? ****in internet full of fakes
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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