"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Now, this crap really sucks

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ketostix said:
The point is potato you are a feminist old woman. What you basically said, and you've said this before like all cooky feminist do, that no matter what a woman does she isn't accountable and the man is in the wrong. And you're a big liar and a troll trying to push your feminist agenda and antagonize here. I doubt anyone puts any creedence into anything you say, and I don't know why you're allowed to continue to post here. I guess for the amusement and shock value. I don't find cooky feminist amusing myself.
Why is it that you always assume that women use and abuse men and are the source of all their problems. Is it any wonder that you so sympathize with the OP when you use the same copout. Isn’t this site supposed to be about men becoming men, not letting themselves succumb to the whims of women?

Don’t you see what is happening here? Backbreaker is letting a woman who he claims he has no designs for and has never touched completely upset his life. The short answer is man up. He was not left off worse for his encounter with this woman. He was left worse because he lacks the fortitude to live his life without the relying on the opinion of others.

Sure women can be troublesome at times, but it is up to the man to pick and choose which women he’ll carouse with, which ones he won’t, which buttons he’ll push, when to walk away… A real man rolls with the punches. Lesser men cry about some supposed feminist agenda keeping them down.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i found from a mutual friend today that she died of an overdose early last week, found in a ditch somewhere out of town. after that entire incident she latched on to someone else in the meetings and now he's back out on the streets without a job using again.

needless to say I doged one.
 
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