"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Now that the holidays are fast approaching..

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Now that the holidays are fast approaching how many single girls will be getting a 'boyfriend' for themselves?

Then by summertime mysteriously end up reborn/single again..

In a way the holiday season and girls all of a sudden have 'boyfriends' reminds me of how girls after a certain age run after some guy in their social circle to get married to when all of their friends start getting married or they realize their market value is shot to hell.

Holidays = presents and someone to spend them with because they can't handle being alone as if they are "losers" if they don't have someone at holiday time.

Marriage = 'independent ladies' don't want to be alone and need that man all of a sudden to 'indepedantly' spend his money and keep up with the other desperate housewives.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You're right. When you're furniture, expect a bad breakup as soon as she doesn't need you anymore.
 

Who Dares Win

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Nice point, now the question is how do we take advantage of it?

Some fake promises of a trip togheter for xmas would buy us some action?
What is the main reason for which they look for a boyfriend during holidays?

I've got a discreet success with the weekend in Paris bullsh1t before summer.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
Nice point, now the question is how do we take advantage of it?

Some fake promises of a trip togheter for xmas would buy us some action?
What is the main reason for which they look for a boyfriend during holidays?

I've got a discreet success with the weekend in Paris bullsh1t before summer.

Most likely the pressure of friends having boyfriends or their own "boyfriends for the holidays" to spend time with. Someone to "impress" their families with. Someone "special" to be guilted and hinted into buying them all the nice things they want.

Of course if you don't want to be their "boyfriend" around those times they'll find someone else who will! LMAO

People also tend to get depressed when they're alone towards the end of the year holidays. These "strong, independent chicks" can't help but trip over themselves to then find someone for those times. Much like Valentines day. Someone "loves" them for the holidays. "See how good and in demand I am?"

Then Summer comes and they magically wind up single for any reason they can justify it with to slore around or enjoy their new found "freedom".

It's sooo convenient!

Typical weak minded sheep.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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