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now that i'm with someone, she won't fuk off?

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okay, i have recently hooked up with someone. and a girl i dated a few weeks ago (went to see a movie at the cinema) is suddently interested again, messaging me and trying to talk to me.

girl 01 = slut, b!tch (history of cheating on her bf as i have heard recently)

girl 02 = new girl

before i went on a date with girl 01, to see a movie, she was with some guy who already had a gf and she only found out later and she was very angry and jealous. she wouldn't stop talking to me about it and was using me to get over him. she did it again on our date. she was talking about him a few times, how he isn't all that great, blah blah (she was pissed off and jealous at the same time) it was instant next in my head with her. i forgot about it.

anyway, i met girl 02 the other day. she's been over here, she went online with my name but changed it to her name and girl 01 suddenly messages me, this is after three weeks since that movie date... she didn't talk to me at all since the whole time, after that date. i had said hi maybe once or twice. that was it. she never msg'ed me like she use to everyday. she'd come in and msg me and chat with me. but after the date she just backed off from me. i think i may of pulled a fast move at the movie date.

anyway... now that she knows im seeing girl 02 (or thinks it) cause she saw my name change to girl 02's name. i think she is trying to get attention? after all this time she only msg's me? anyway, i just hopped on the comp and quit. and totally forgot about her and started messin with girl 02. we are often seeing each other :)

what should i do about girl 01? she's a HB8.
 

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In my opinion I would keep girl 01 on the backburner while you pursue things with girl 02. -But do be very careful.- Do not let her know at any time that she is in the second runner up position. Remember there is absolutely nothing wrong with having girls that are friends.

It all depends on what your after with girl no 2 and no 1. Are you in it for a steady relationship or just some sex?
 

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Originally posted by BADA-BING
In my opinion I would keep girl 01 on the backburner while you pursue things with girl 02. -But do be very careful.- Do not let her know at any time that she is in the second runner up position. Remember there is absolutely nothing wrong with having girls that are friends.




This is what girls do.
 

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You said Girl 01 was a slvt right?

So bang the sh#t out of her on the side - keep it like that.
 
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