Now that im moving countries,Shes throwing Drama!

[slickaz]

I got a promotion within in my organisation, and its posted in Sydney Australia full time.
I cant say no because its huge career boost for me + the money is about 3 times the average salary + future prospects will be even bigger.

I have 4 chics that im seeing, 3 of them dont mean much to me.

one...does.
not anything serious, i just see her as a chic that i get along with and enjoy spending time with.. however she comes second to my job. lets call her Leah.

Since ive told all 4 of my departure.
of the 4, 2 walked away without any drama.
1 gave me a little drama snapping her fingers etc, and i put the smack down and she left.

Leah however, always played a good game with me, we never exchanged feelings etc just good times and amazing s3x.
she has started giving me drama.
she doesnt want me to go, because she really invested alot etc etc.
unlike the last girl i cant seem to slam the door on her face.

i know shes got feelings involved, the more i hear her talk about this, the more i wanna stay. however i know i cant.
its just a circle of Yes im going, NO do i want to?

One thing i didnt like about what she said was: if i was to go, she asked me to promise id fly her to Sydney twice a month..i laughed at her said no = more drama

She has good reasons as to why i should stay, but i have good reasons as to why i should go. but! now im stuck with weighing the reasons.

What would you guys do?

Sydney is bigger, the pay is better and the future is good. id have to sell everything here and move. id have to break her heart.

If i stay where i am, then i get a good pay upgrade (not as much as if i took the promotion job) and i get to keep my friends and all my stuff.


advice?

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

you really seem to like her.

 

[SharinganUser]

If you like her that much then ask her to go with you. If you both really want this, you'll make it work. Otherwise it is just saving you time from breaking up later

Go to Australia

 

[Warrior74]

Take the job.

I say this from my personal experience. I had a great job in LA. Almost my dream job. I turned it down because my girl didn't want to move away from all of her friends and family. Two years later, we split. I felt weaker for not going. I resented her.

You can't put your life on hold for another person. Either they are down with going to where you are, or you keep moving. You will meet more people. She's not the only woman on earth you can get along with. And if you get there and find out that she is, tell her to come there or a while and consider moving there with you. But you have to be the leader in this situation...if she's not your woman, then you continue on your life path, if she wants to become your woman, she's gonna have to follow your lead and this is where you are leading her, to a better life.

MOB! Money over *****es!

Otherwise man. just cut her off. stop talking to her and get ready to move on.

 

[Igetit!]

Man,this is a tough one Slickaz. Why couldn't you ask an easy question like about flaking or how long to wait to call a girl after getting her number?

Well,let's see. You said that this would be a HUGE step for your career,with triple the pay,plus you'd be moving to a new country as well. From what you said about this girl,you seem pretty fond of her,but how often do you get an opportunity like this? Some guys may go their whole lives and never get the fortune you have available to you right now. The ironic thing about this is that the fire,passion,and drive that caused you to get this promotion is the same thing that attracts the women to you in the first place.

Let me throw in my two pennies so I can get off of here:

I say take the promotion. I understand that you and this girl probably have feeling for each other,but this is your livelyhood we're talking about. I'm sure she's special to you,but women come and go man,you know that. There will always be another woman. Can you say that about this job opportunity you have right now? Now look,if she were your wife,I'd say no. If the two of you were engaged,I'd say no. If the relationship were serious,and the two of you possibly headed for the alter,I'd say no. But since the two of you are "just dating",and since she's just 1 of 4 like you said,I have to choose the promotion.

I've read some of your threads,and seen some of your replies to other posters,so I can tell you have a good head on your shoulders. You can trust your own judgement. I'm sure that whatever you decide,it'll best the best decision for you.

Peace man.

 

[everywomanshero]

Dude, go to Aussie. Screw sticking around for some chick.

 

[slickaz]

everywomanshero:

Dude, go to Aussie. Screw sticking around for some chick.


Hahahahahahahah i like that..every womans hero, saying Screw the chic go to Aussy..classic..

Thanks guys...
made me open my eyes again..
yes i like this chic..and yes i could see potential LTR in her, but like Warrior Said, MOB..and thats all i should be thinking about at this stage anyway.
plus i hear Sydney's got GORGEOUS women?...lol.

man its easy saying it..but in the back of my head is this feeling like..are you sure? you wanna leave all of this behind and go?..but no in reality i gotta take care of myself first i suppose because tomorrow everything i have here could go up in flames and id be regretting it.

....... anyone here from Sydney?

 

[Black suit]

Slickaz, if you go to Australia, I'll study harder and get to collage! Do it for me!!

 

[Solomon]

Take the job.

I say this from my personal experience. I had a great job in LA. Almost my dream job. I turned it down because my girl didn't want to move away from all of her friends and family. Two years later, we split. I felt weaker for not going. I resented her.

You can't put your life on hold for another person. Either they are down with going to where you are, or you keep moving. You will meet more people. She's not the only woman on earth you can get along with. And if you get there and find out that she is, tell her to come there or a while and consider moving there with you. But you have to be the leader in this situation...if she's not your woman, then you continue on your life path, if she wants to become your woman, she's gonna have to follow your lead and this is where you are leading her, to a better life.

MOB! Money over *****es!

Otherwise man. just cut her off. stop talking to her and get ready to move on.

MOB 4 life

ayo slick

you know what it is mayn, its a recission stack ya paper, if shorty is down for you she will come with you, or whatever.

My homeboy did that his shorty got a promo he rode with her, granted he hates this state but oh well his girl gettng paper, and he living good

 

[slickaz]

Slickaz, if you go to Australia, I'll study harder and get to collage! Do it for me!!

DAAAMNIT!!!! now uve just flipped it on me man...now i gotta go!..lol.

you better to college my man.. im moving to Sydney.

Solomon:

i feel u bru....im fina fly her out..but i dont think shawty wan'ride witchyo boi man..ay she aready kno son, i got one hand on my money..other one on the woodgrain if she wanna shotgun wit that 6 figa paper maker, i can move the heat of the seat.. .she knows if i gets slept on too long, i get to stepn like mike jackson.:cuss:

MOB...I been done it since i got birthed man...this just another test..:box:

 

[Aragon034]

Slickaz, here's a picture of a friend of mine from Sydney (she's a club dancer and aspiring disc jockey)

http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a196/Aragon101/n641730420_1499654_7139.jpg

She tells me that the women are ridiculously gorgeous and she wishes she was a lesbian.

I'd kill to be in your position right now man. You HAVE to go. For the good of the HuMAN race!

 

[Crazy Asian]

in Aussie, 75% of girls actually like giving head while only less than 20% of american chicks enjoy it.

 

[daygameguy]

Australia is easier to live in with this economic crisis.

The weather is much better than most states in US.

The work culture is more relaxed.

Guys and girls are more chilled out because every one gets a good job (low population) along with the good climate and low stress work culture.


In America I feel (from 1 and 1/2 year of experience) that the girls are gorgeous but finding a chill normal girl to have an LTR with is quite unlikely, especially in the fast paced city life like Los Angeles or something.


Conclusion - GO. She should come with you if she really wants you.