Now she is pregnant

[giovannikast]

Hi
I have been dating with a girl for almost a year. She was my girlfriend for about ten months although the last three months I wanted to cut this relationship, but I didnt because the sex was great.
I wanted to cut because I knew she was seeing her ex boyfriend and was dating with another guy, a doctor. I didnt care because I was not very in love with her and thought we could break in any moment. Moreover she wanted to leave her house because had problems with her fathers.
I wanted to end it yet I had stopped seeing her for about two weeks when she called me and told she was pregnant. It was the worst news I could have ever heared.
She has now two months I told her to abort twice in different weeks, and she didnt want this, and told me to forget about her and the baby. But now told me that she wants to have the baby with me together
Well, I know that I dont love her, and I dont want a baby now. What I dont like is having a link with her in the future. I think I will ask her to live together until the baby is born and then have the baby in adoption.
You guys, any advice?
Giovanni

 

[Mojo604]

Fukcin religious people piss me off... if that dumb chick wasnt christian or whatever she wouldnt be opposed to having an abortion and ruining both your lives and your families'.

thats a tough situation...whatever you can come up with is probably the best way to go, you have the best perspective on the matter.

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by Mojo604
Fukcin religious people piss me off... if that dumb chick wasnt christian or whatever she wouldnt be opposed to having an abortion and ruining both your lives and your families'.

thats a tough situation...whatever you can come up with is probably the best way to go, you have the best perspective on the matter.

It's not just Christianity...having an abortion can be a very traumatic event for a woman...motherhood is a very strong emotional state.

 

[SheDevil]

Originally posted by giovannikast


I wanted to cut because I knew she was seeing her ex boyfriend and was dating with another guy, a doctor.

If I were you I would look into a paternity test. Make sure you are the father before making too many plans. Just a thought.

 

[J.R.G.G]

now be a man and take responsibilty, you dont have to care about her but make sure the baby is yours and be a man if he is yours.

 

[frivolousz21]

supergigalodj just busted ur gay ass!

 

[spider_007]

im new, What's with people posting **** like that????????

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by Mojo604
Fukcin religious people piss me off... if that dumb chick wasnt christian or whatever she wouldnt be opposed to having an abortion and ruining both your lives and your families'.

thats a tough situation...whatever you can come up with is probably the best way to go, you have the best perspective on the matter.

I'm not religious and there is no way in hell I would get an abortion. I could never murder my own child. Furthermore...if two people believe they are old and mature enough to have sex then they accept the risks involved. It goes with the territory. If you want to be 100% sure not to be a father then the only fool proof and risk free way to guarantee that is to not have sex. Everytime you make the choice to have sex you are taking a risk. You know that...and complaining after the fact is futile. If you're going to still have sex knowing the risks then you should be using two forms of birth control at all times...a condom for the guy and either the pill or shot for the woman is the best bet.
He took the risk and now it looks like he's going to be a father, regardless of whether he wants to be or not. The time to think about this was BEFORE he had sex, not after. Period.

 

[Paradox]

Thanks SuperGigaloDJ


That was a good catch. Thread closed.