"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Now I'm hooked

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Okay now I have gotten a girlfriend. What is a DJ to do as a boyfriend? Do I follow the same routine (i.e. don't always be available, be a challenge, etc.) as before I asked her out? What are some tips on how to be a good boyfriend? I've searched this site and I can't really find much on this topic. Thanks for any help.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Lordlaxative
Okay now I have gotten a girlfriend. What is a DJ to do as a boyfriend? Do I follow the same routine (i.e. don't always be available, be a challenge, etc.) as before I asked her out? What are some tips on how to be a good boyfriend? I've searched this site and I can't really find much on this topic. Thanks for any help.
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Be yourself. If you weren't yourself when you attracted her, then she doesn't really like you and things won't work out.
 
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Re: Re: Now I'm hooked

Originally posted by DJUofS
Be yourself. If you weren't yourself when you attracted her, then she doesn't really like you and things won't work out.
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Well if this guy used to normally be a total wuss then giving him that advice wont help him much. What you need to do is just have fun and seriously not worry much about what you say but I know even when I say this you probally will still care of course. I know everyone says this but since your totally new check out the DJ bible.
 
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Originally posted by Lordlaxative
Okay now I have gotten a girlfriend. What is a DJ to do as a boyfriend? Do I follow the same routine (i.e. don't always be available, be a challenge, etc.) as before I asked her out? What are some tips on how to be a good boyfriend? I've searched this site and I can't really find much on this topic. Thanks for any help.
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There are a few LTR things here, but the biggest thing is to be the man. Don't be a wuss, don't supplicate, don't fall into the "I don't know, what do you want to do" trap. Be the strong, masculine leader and take no crap. Women like to be led, they like to follow, they like to be submissive, so be a man worthy of her following you and submitting to you. A lot of Puerto Rican Lover's writing is very good for advice on this.
 
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