"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Now im getting upset...

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What the fvck is it!.... I go out lookin good.. i get great looks from bunches! of girls its great! But... one thing is pissing me off... Guys stare at me.... i look away thinking, "why is this moron starin at me!" I get guys lookin at me like i have something on my face.. What is this? When guys are with their girlfriends.. they stare at me nonstop.. when they catch their girl checking me out... its like they want to fight me. Im no Pvssy but fighting is not my thing... Why! do these chumps stare at me!?..
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ive had that "dont bother me attitude" but dude... it gets annoying to the point where it makes me upset... i dont come off like im the sh!t, i act normal but guys lookin at guys doesnt sit right with me. maybe im complaining about Bull Sh!t but does anyone experience this??
 
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No, I don't experience guys lookin me up and down (thank god).

Don't let it bother you. Just keep your head up and you'll be straight.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by In2theGame
ive had that "dont bother me attitude" but dude... it gets annoying to the point where it makes me upset... i dont come off like im the sh!t, i act normal but guys lookin at guys doesnt sit right with me. maybe im complaining about Bull Sh!t but does anyone experience this??
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This is getting a bit circular.

Look, you sound emotionally volatile and overly concerned about what other people think. You're living in their reality.

You've "had" the attitude? What happened to it? Get it back.

What do you want a bunch of people on a message board to do?

You should not care what they think. Alternatively, you should have a frank discussion with them.

I'll often say, "you're looking at me strangely. Am I growing antlers or something?"

There is nothing out there to hide from but yourself.
 
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Originally posted by In2theGame
What the fvck is it!.... I go out lookin good.. i get great looks from bunches! of girls its great! But... one thing is pissing me off... Guys stare at me.... i look away thinking, "why is this moron starin at me!" I get guys lookin at me like i have something on my face.. What is this? When guys are with their girlfriends.. they stare at me nonstop.. when they catch their girl checking me out... its like they want to fight me. Im no Pvssy but fighting is not my thing... Why! do these chumps stare at me!?..
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they might have some gay tendencies and admiring a good looking man, you should be proud.
 
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