"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Now, I have a real damn dillemma here, and I need someone god damn advice, quick

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I dunno if I am just overemphazing this or not, but last year I was working at a Subway before I went back into sales, and I was working alone on Sundays(this is a real slow location), so two girls come in looking good as hell. So I ask one of them for their number and she laughed and said she had a bf, but then she finally told me she was about 15. So now, for the next two Sundays, her and her other friend, who looked and acted bout 12, come in and stay for about two hours, and totally acting a damn fool and grabbing chips off the rack and grabbing cups and filling them with pop, etc. They even jump over the counter and run into the back where I was at acting a damn fool...

So recently I was told, that the 15 year old(even though she looks bout 18), went missing one night, and she told her mother that I had picked her azz up and took her somewhere that night! So her mother called the owner of the subway and he and the staff told me that shyt!!

I am just curious, I am getting out of college and I have a great career going now and its just about to get even better out of college, and I dont wanna deal with this bytch making up some shyt that I took her somewhere or felt her up, just to get me in jail and get some of my money, so should I report this to the cops now so that they know I didnt do shyt or what!!! This is some straight R. Kelly shyt here.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by Mr. Cardio
I dunno if I am just overemphazing this or not, but last year I was working at a Subway before I went back into sales, and I was working alone on Sundays(this is a real slow location), so two girls come in looking good as hell. So I ask one of them for their number and she laughed and said she had a bf, but then she finally told me she was about 15. So now, for the next two Sundays, her and her other friend, who looked and acted bout 12, come in and stay for about two hours, and totally acting a damn fool and grabbing chips off the rack and grabbing cups and filling them with pop, etc. They even jump over the counter and run into the back where I was at acting a damn fool...

So recently I was told, that the 15 year old(even though she looks bout 18), went missing one night, and she told her mother that I had picked her azz up and took her somewhere that night! So her mother called the owner of the subway and he and the staff told me that shyt!!

I am just curious, I am getting out of college and I have a great career going now and its just about to get even better out of college, and I dont wanna deal with this bytch making up some shyt that I took her somewhere or felt her up, just to get me in jail and get some of my money, so should I report this to the cops now so that they know I didnt do shyt or what!!! This is some straight R. Kelly shyt here.
How old are you?
 

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damn are you even still talking to this girl or what??

if it happend awhile back and you don't talk to her then i don't believe you should be worried about it....plus she doesn't have anything on you....if you've never had sex or nothing your good right?
 

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Do what you have to do pimpin, u said it yourself they were acting like 12 year olds.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I am just worried, when you come into some money, people who dont have none, try any many to get it...I know I did nothing with that girl, but what if in a couple of years, she wants to sue? I am saying, should I make a report of her lying now before it even comes up? Again, she was 15, her friend was about 13, but the 15 year old looked like she was 18, what should I do?
 

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you dont owe anyone any money
you tell her mother when she calls that you havent seen the chick and if you do you will call her or the police

stop talking to underage chicks
 

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pen I see what you are saying, I dont know her parents or nothing, I was just workign at a sandwich shop and she was a customer....the girl is wild and used me as a way for her mother not to kick her azz for running out away that night.....I just wanna cover my azz incase they try to hit me up later...should I go to the cops? And I didnt know she was 15 when I first asked her for her number, she looked 18, when she said she was 15, I backed off period.
 

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Your right, she was covering her azz. She must have mentioned to her mom that she chills with you about 2 hours on a daily basis and her mom is cool about it.

And since she didn't mention anything in terms of sex or rape. The cops won't have a problem with you. You never touched her and she doesn't want court cases ****ing up her rep.

You have nothing to worry about.

also take pen's advice, stay away from kids.
 

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should have goten her number and called her at home, talked to her mother and told her: "Get your daughter in line or i'll give her some spaninkg, she is coming overhere with her frineds and making trouble at my workplace, you eather get her in line or i call the cops.."
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i thought you were leaving this site?
 

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I don't know much about law in the US.

But can't you sue her for... altering/hurting .. your image?

I say turn it around and attack her.
 

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Originally posted by SamePendo
I don't know much about law in the US.

But can't you sue her for... altering/hurting .. your image?

I say turn it around and attack her.
Slander
 

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LOL, is this for reals? sounds a nightmare. Look man, if she's running around telling lies, i'm sure it will all backfire on her in the end.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My honest truth is i cant feel sorry for you guys who talk too young girls, you shouldnt even look or speak to a younger girls that age they are too stupid.
 

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if you didnt do **** just **** it.
 

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id say murdah her. ya know, real cold-blooded and all.

:)

I don't think it matters. Just find someone you trust and make sure they know the situation. Someone respectable, like a succesful friend, or your dad or something. That way they can testify for you later if they have to.
 
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