"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Now can YOU help me see what can I learn from THIS?

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Aazman

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Backstory: a girl who at the moment lives a bit far from me. So waiting till we meet again in august. (normally live in the same city)

however she seems to think i'm mad after her. Stupid really but she's already on strike one.

Now the odd thing is:

I've decided to stop being so nice. But be more flamboyant. So knowing this: here is the text convo:

me: what number?
chico: what do you mean what number?(she's doing maths, hence i tease her about being a nerd)
me: oh wow. your so slow today. Your the numbers girl, your head should be full of them! haha
chico: stop sending texts full of ****.
me: wow you need to chill. goodbye.
chico: well stop insulting me, and maybe i'l respond to your ****...

wierd convo i know. Wierd stuff from me. But what i'm finding is that: it can be good to be random at times. yet not always.

However teasing i find is okay, yet when incorporated with being random is a disaster. Am I right?

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Aazman said:
me: what number?
chico: what do you mean what number?(she's doing maths, hence i tease her about being a nerd)
me: oh wow. your so slow today. Your the numbers girl, your head should be full of them! haha
chico: stop sending texts full of ****.
me: wow you need to chill. goodbye.
chico: well stop insulting me, and maybe i'l respond to your ****...
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IT takes practise and skill to game a woman via text msgs using negs and c&f ..
I would suggest that you restrict your future attempts to a face to face setting.
 
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yeah she wasn't in the right mindset. she was confused.
chico: what do you mean what number?
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if you act playful first then she wouldnt mind
 
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Aazman

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do you think i should end this. Or carry on, learn from the experience?
 
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That text conversation was horrible.

Here's what you ought to do: Stop texting her. Really, there is no reason to. The reason she thinks you are "mad after her" is because you are probably texting her meaningless stuff like that all the time.

You're gonna be in the same city as her soon, so don't bother contacting her until then. At that point, you may contact her to get a meet-up going.

But don't expect much.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Aazman

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stupidest suggestion ever- delete.
 
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