"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Now can YOU help me see what can I learn from THIS?

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Aazman

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Backstory: a girl who at the moment lives a bit far from me. So waiting till we meet again in august. (normally live in the same city)

however she seems to think i'm mad after her. Stupid really but she's already on strike one.

Now the odd thing is:

I've decided to stop being so nice. But be more flamboyant. So knowing this: here is the text convo:

me: what number?
chico: what do you mean what number?(she's doing maths, hence i tease her about being a nerd)
me: oh wow. your so slow today. Your the numbers girl, your head should be full of them! haha
chico: stop sending texts full of ****.
me: wow you need to chill. goodbye.
chico: well stop insulting me, and maybe i'l respond to your ****...

wierd convo i know. Wierd stuff from me. But what i'm finding is that: it can be good to be random at times. yet not always.

However teasing i find is okay, yet when incorporated with being random is a disaster. Am I right?

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Aazman said:
me: what number?
chico: what do you mean what number?(she's doing maths, hence i tease her about being a nerd)
me: oh wow. your so slow today. Your the numbers girl, your head should be full of them! haha
chico: stop sending texts full of ****.
me: wow you need to chill. goodbye.
chico: well stop insulting me, and maybe i'l respond to your ****...
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IT takes practise and skill to game a woman via text msgs using negs and c&f ..
I would suggest that you restrict your future attempts to a face to face setting.
 
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yeah she wasn't in the right mindset. she was confused.
chico: what do you mean what number?
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if you act playful first then she wouldnt mind
 
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Aazman

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do you think i should end this. Or carry on, learn from the experience?
 
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That text conversation was horrible.

Here's what you ought to do: Stop texting her. Really, there is no reason to. The reason she thinks you are "mad after her" is because you are probably texting her meaningless stuff like that all the time.

You're gonna be in the same city as her soon, so don't bother contacting her until then. At that point, you may contact her to get a meet-up going.

But don't expect much.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Aazman

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stupidest suggestion ever- delete.
 
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