"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Novels with true alphas?

Theunique1

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I have seen a lot of postings regarding alpha male movie characters/actors, but am more interested in recommendations about the most "alpha" novel characters any of you have come across. Most searches you do will have to do with some cheesy romance novel that old women write about billionaires and the such. I am more curious about maybe some books written from the viewpoint of a true alpha, someone who wreaks of confidence and the right mindset. Any thoughts?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Stange is it may be, I've been reading Tom Clancy novels like crazy lately. Maybe not alpha (in the sesne of women), but they are badarse, and are alpha in the sense of leadership and taking one's destiny into one's own hands.
 
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Indeed any story with a (20th century or newer) "Byronic Hero" in it.
 
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Personally I've always admired Edmond Dantes in the Count of Monte Cristo - not so much in regard to women (the book barely contains any of that) but in his conduct and actions.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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fvck you, I read a LOT, and any punk who thinks I'm beta is looking to get his nuts pulled off.
 

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goundra said:
fvck you, I read a LOT, and any punk who thinks I'm beta is looking to get his nuts pulled off.
That's what I'm saying. So, alpha=bodybuilder dumbass neanderthal (that would probably have difficulty reading anyhow) by others standards? Brilliant!
 
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