"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ok, making it a little less confused here..... first of all, i have a prob if i really call it a prob (since i got all my gfs in the same manner) that i dont approach (by which i mean, starting up a natural convo) any random HB that i see checking me out. in fact, i find it so very odd that i dont do it at all. its my ego i think that cant tolerate if someone would like to change that.

today itself i saw a girl checking me out and she was with one of her guyfriends or maybe, her bf. so, i fully ignored her and walked away.

now forget about this situation. what I am asking u all, is what would u do if u see any girl checking u out? would u make her come to u by not going over to her and simultaneously trying to increase your value in her eyes or just go over and start up a convo with her and go onto create attraction through the convo? what do u suggest?

because on ur suggestions, i would think if my ego is correct or not!
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i'm a little confused by your post(which i tend to do sometimes too) yet I think what your saying is a girl was eyeing you while she was with her man. I get the biggest kick when they do this. Unless shes with me lol. #1 In this situation shes obviously only good for a nail (at least most of the time). #2 its up to you whether you care or not about running game on this guy you don't knows girl. #3 you have to assess the situation carefuly, can you get her alone or comuniacte on the low some how? #4 Are you sure shes vibing you? cause if not you may wind up in a scuffle.
 
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yes, she was kinda giving mixed signals, so really confused about it. now, tell me something sosilky, u as a DJ, would u instantly start up a natural convo with a HB u see checking u out? or would u rather wait for her to come to you or try hard so taht u get to the point of starting it?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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schttrj said:
yes, she was kinda giving mixed signals, so really confused about it. now, tell me something sosilky, u as a DJ, would u instantly start up a natural convo with a HB u see checking u out? or would u rather wait for her to come to you or try hard so taht u get to the point of starting it?
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i think most guys in here would tell you the three second rule. if you see a girl your interested in from the time you see her it should take no more then three seconds to start your aproach to her. Lately I only do this if I'm realy feeling like a DJ but the goal is to be able to do this all the time no matter what. The theory is the more you force yourself to do it and take rejetions in stride the easier it gets and better you get at it. learn from each aproach.
 
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i think ost guys in here would tell you the three second rule. if you see a girl your interested in from the time you see her it should take no more then three seconds to start your aproach to her. Lately I only do this if I'm realy feeling like a DJ but the goal is to be able to do this all the time no matter wat. The theor is the more you force yourself to do it and take rejetions in stride the easier gets and better you get at it. learn from each aproach.
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could u please explain me the 3-second rule? why 3-second and why not instantly?
 
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could u please explain me the 3-second rule? why 3-second and why not instantly?
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3 second rule is pretty self explanatory. 3 seconds practicaly is instantly. instantly is fine too.
 
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and guys, do any of you really struggle on approach, either warm or cold? how do u actually pull it off then?

and oh ya, do u guys recommend to go for the kill when its warm or should we also go for cold ones because we might build up the attraction from nil?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Approach the woman. Simple.

ALWAYS assume the woman is attracted to you unless proven otherwise. Any slight indication that she's attracted to you is a blinking green light with her voice yelling "Approach me you lazy fvck!"

If she actually is not attracted to you, she'll let you know.
 
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Approach the woman. Simple.

ALWAYS assume the woman is attracted to you unless proven otherwise. Any slight indication that she's attracted to you is a blinking green light with her voice yelling "Approach me you lazy fvck!"

If she actually is not attracted to you, she'll let you know.
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thats what i was wanting to hear! any different opinions here, guys? would like to second it? I am a sucker at approaching and really need some motivation lol
 
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