"Banging the Babe in Beijing"
before reading this post you have to read my post ‘banging a girl in beijing’, this thread contains the notes I collected from my story, that will hopefully help you to bang more babes.
Please read the ‘banging a girl in Beijing’ thread first or else you won’t understand anything!!!
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Notice I interwove her physical beauty with the attractiveness of her
outfit? By my focusing the compliment on her outfit it was more meaningful to
her, because the outfit was something SHE chose. (Unlike her physical beauty,
which was a result of genetics, not personal choice) And keep in mind, as
always, I genuinely believed what I said to her, which added more power to the
words. The more you believe in the compliment you pay a woman, the more power
the words will carry.
() I don't make a habit of paying a compliment and then leaving like I did
here, but she had company, so I felt it would have more impact if I left them
alone to talk about what I just did. Also note that I made a point of sitting
nearby, which I did so she could see me AND so she could see that I was not
dining with anyone else.
() Humor out of the blue, as I've stated before, is always a great way to get
rapport.
() I set up a small challenge here. I was giving her a chance to learn more
about me, by way of learning more about herself, but she had to agree to it or
else it wouldn't take place.
() Notice I corrected her, but in a powerful, not negative, way. By wording my
response the way I did, I not only eliminated her "suspicion" of me, but I also
let her know that what I would do would only go as far as she allowed it to go.
She had the freedom, so she would offer little resistance!
() What happened here in multi-layered, so allow me to chunk it for you. First
I denied her what I offered her, then I gave her a chance to get it back by
giving ME something first (in this case her room #), then I "paced" her (stay in
your seat, and as I eat, you can... ) and turned the subject in a new direction.
(In this case, why she was in Tai Yuan, China). This may take heavy practice in
order for you to cover all these things in your own sarging, but believe me,
it's a powerful tool to have! Especially the part where you take something away,
but allow them to have it back by giving you something first. PRACTICE,
PRACTICE, PRACTICE!
() Notice I didn't do what countless AFCs do and reply, "No, I really want to
hear about it." I took a different approach and let her "win" by accepting what
she said. Now, in this case she laughed and took it as me being funny, but there
are times when a babe will not know immediately HOW to react. The vast majority
of the times I do this, the babe ends up telling me much more about themselves,
than I suspect they would have if I had "begged" by saying, "No, I really want
to hear it."
() While I wasn't technically lying here (I DO have girlfriends, just not ones
I'm in a committed relationship with) this isn't always the best response to
give. These days when a babe tells me she has a "Borefiend" I reply in a joking
manner, "Of course you do, I assumed that. What surprises me is that you chose
to give all that you are to just one man. He must be with you in exactly the way
you want him to be, or else you would be expanding your options with other men."
The impact of this, is that she has to go inside and ask herself if the guy
she's with is truly who she wants to be with. The added bonus is that I end it
purposely vague (What does "expanding your options" mean exactly?), and I
purposely mumble the last words so it's unclear if I said "another man" or "
other men." So the last part can sound like I'm saying either, "if he's not
absolutely everything you want, you'd find someone else who is." or "If he's not
absolutely everything you want, you'd fill the void by seeing other men on the
side." Like the response in note #, this one takes lots of practice to pull of
correctly, but this is one you can practice in private, using a recorder to test
how it sounds. The whole thing is GOLD (Most of it was borrowed from Ross, but
the last part is all mine) and if you can get the "other men/another man" part
down, you're all set!
() This one rates as SOLID GOLD in my book, as I have had such great responses
from babes after I've said this. FULL credit goes to Ross on this one, this is
just more proof that the man is truly a genius!
() As I've mentioned before, this is a much better probing question than
asking her if she likes her job. The way it's worded truly will elicit her
values, even if this job is not fulfilling those values! But times out of
she will reveal what values ARE being fulfilled, and as a result, you'll gather
valuable "trance words" from her!
() As you probably noticed, I took the words SHE used, and used them back at
her. This did a few things. For one thing it showed that I had been listening to
her. Also by using her own wording, I established myself as being like her. And
finally, since I spoke... slowly... and with a... lower... tonality, it put her
in a mild trance, which of course you noticed I anchored by tapping her wrist
(Just to make sure you know specifically how I do the wrist anchor, I'll explain
it again. Using my index finger, I tap her wrist three times, then on the word
"that" I hold my finger on her wrist for a good two to three seconds)
() It's important to be as congruent as possible. There are times when I'll
say I have to leave in a few minutes, then I end up staying for ten or twenty
minutes, but I only do that if I see that the babe is highly suggestible and I
believe I can close the deal in one sitting. Otherwise I leave, which is
powerful as a take-away if you just put her in a highly excited state!
() A take-away is not nearly as powerful unless you create a chance in her
mind for the two of you to get together again. In this case, I expressed a
subtle interest in continuing our conversation but wanted to do it where we
would not be interrupted. This did two things; It let her know I wanted to
continue this, and it put making that happen up to her. This works VERY nicely.
() There are few things more powerful than creating a sense of "scarcity" in a
person's mind. I got her interest, separated myself from likely ANY other guy
she's met, got her feeling wonderful things, said I had to leave, then subtly
revealed that her chance to continue this was very much limited. But keep in
mind that I presented the scarcity in a way that was not obvious. Instead of
saying, "We only have two days, so we should meet again soon." I said it in a
way that made it seem like I felt we had plenty of time. Therefore the feeling
of scarcity would be what she realized on her own, instead of me stating it
outright. See, if you can word something in a way that implies limited quantity,
but you don't say it's scarce -outright, the other person will believe the
scarcity more deeply because it what THEY concluded "on their own."
() It's important to be aware of your own available free time. I knew if I
closed the deal at breakfast I wouldn't be able to bang her right then, because
I had job responsibilities. So what I did here accomplished things: It added
extra power to the "scarcity" principle, because this was one less opportunity
for her to see me again. It gave me time to develop a more detailed sarging
plan. And it made the reality of her saying yes to dinner with me much more
likely. This is kinda like that old rule of not calling a babe until days
after she gives you her phone number, but it's much more effective than that.
While I do wait a day or two to call a babe, I will wait almost a week if I know
I've established a powerful enough anchor on her. (Like anchoring the stars to
me, or her television set to me, or some other thing she is likely to see when
at her home)
before reading this post you have to read my post ‘banging a girl in beijing’, this thread contains the notes I collected from my story, that will hopefully help you to bang more babes.
Please read the ‘banging a girl in Beijing’ thread first or else you won’t understand anything!!!
......
Notice I interwove her physical beauty with the attractiveness of her
outfit? By my focusing the compliment on her outfit it was more meaningful to
her, because the outfit was something SHE chose. (Unlike her physical beauty,
which was a result of genetics, not personal choice) And keep in mind, as
always, I genuinely believed what I said to her, which added more power to the
words. The more you believe in the compliment you pay a woman, the more power
the words will carry.
() I don't make a habit of paying a compliment and then leaving like I did
here, but she had company, so I felt it would have more impact if I left them
alone to talk about what I just did. Also note that I made a point of sitting
nearby, which I did so she could see me AND so she could see that I was not
dining with anyone else.
() Humor out of the blue, as I've stated before, is always a great way to get
rapport.
() I set up a small challenge here. I was giving her a chance to learn more
about me, by way of learning more about herself, but she had to agree to it or
else it wouldn't take place.
() Notice I corrected her, but in a powerful, not negative, way. By wording my
response the way I did, I not only eliminated her "suspicion" of me, but I also
let her know that what I would do would only go as far as she allowed it to go.
She had the freedom, so she would offer little resistance!
() What happened here in multi-layered, so allow me to chunk it for you. First
I denied her what I offered her, then I gave her a chance to get it back by
giving ME something first (in this case her room #), then I "paced" her (stay in
your seat, and as I eat, you can... ) and turned the subject in a new direction.
(In this case, why she was in Tai Yuan, China). This may take heavy practice in
order for you to cover all these things in your own sarging, but believe me,
it's a powerful tool to have! Especially the part where you take something away,
but allow them to have it back by giving you something first. PRACTICE,
PRACTICE, PRACTICE!
() Notice I didn't do what countless AFCs do and reply, "No, I really want to
hear about it." I took a different approach and let her "win" by accepting what
she said. Now, in this case she laughed and took it as me being funny, but there
are times when a babe will not know immediately HOW to react. The vast majority
of the times I do this, the babe ends up telling me much more about themselves,
than I suspect they would have if I had "begged" by saying, "No, I really want
to hear it."
() While I wasn't technically lying here (I DO have girlfriends, just not ones
I'm in a committed relationship with) this isn't always the best response to
give. These days when a babe tells me she has a "Borefiend" I reply in a joking
manner, "Of course you do, I assumed that. What surprises me is that you chose
to give all that you are to just one man. He must be with you in exactly the way
you want him to be, or else you would be expanding your options with other men."
The impact of this, is that she has to go inside and ask herself if the guy
she's with is truly who she wants to be with. The added bonus is that I end it
purposely vague (What does "expanding your options" mean exactly?), and I
purposely mumble the last words so it's unclear if I said "another man" or "
other men." So the last part can sound like I'm saying either, "if he's not
absolutely everything you want, you'd find someone else who is." or "If he's not
absolutely everything you want, you'd fill the void by seeing other men on the
side." Like the response in note #, this one takes lots of practice to pull of
correctly, but this is one you can practice in private, using a recorder to test
how it sounds. The whole thing is GOLD (Most of it was borrowed from Ross, but
the last part is all mine) and if you can get the "other men/another man" part
down, you're all set!
() This one rates as SOLID GOLD in my book, as I have had such great responses
from babes after I've said this. FULL credit goes to Ross on this one, this is
just more proof that the man is truly a genius!
() As I've mentioned before, this is a much better probing question than
asking her if she likes her job. The way it's worded truly will elicit her
values, even if this job is not fulfilling those values! But times out of
she will reveal what values ARE being fulfilled, and as a result, you'll gather
valuable "trance words" from her!
() As you probably noticed, I took the words SHE used, and used them back at
her. This did a few things. For one thing it showed that I had been listening to
her. Also by using her own wording, I established myself as being like her. And
finally, since I spoke... slowly... and with a... lower... tonality, it put her
in a mild trance, which of course you noticed I anchored by tapping her wrist
(Just to make sure you know specifically how I do the wrist anchor, I'll explain
it again. Using my index finger, I tap her wrist three times, then on the word
"that" I hold my finger on her wrist for a good two to three seconds)
() It's important to be as congruent as possible. There are times when I'll
say I have to leave in a few minutes, then I end up staying for ten or twenty
minutes, but I only do that if I see that the babe is highly suggestible and I
believe I can close the deal in one sitting. Otherwise I leave, which is
powerful as a take-away if you just put her in a highly excited state!
() A take-away is not nearly as powerful unless you create a chance in her
mind for the two of you to get together again. In this case, I expressed a
subtle interest in continuing our conversation but wanted to do it where we
would not be interrupted. This did two things; It let her know I wanted to
continue this, and it put making that happen up to her. This works VERY nicely.
() There are few things more powerful than creating a sense of "scarcity" in a
person's mind. I got her interest, separated myself from likely ANY other guy
she's met, got her feeling wonderful things, said I had to leave, then subtly
revealed that her chance to continue this was very much limited. But keep in
mind that I presented the scarcity in a way that was not obvious. Instead of
saying, "We only have two days, so we should meet again soon." I said it in a
way that made it seem like I felt we had plenty of time. Therefore the feeling
of scarcity would be what she realized on her own, instead of me stating it
outright. See, if you can word something in a way that implies limited quantity,
but you don't say it's scarce -outright, the other person will believe the
scarcity more deeply because it what THEY concluded "on their own."
() It's important to be aware of your own available free time. I knew if I
closed the deal at breakfast I wouldn't be able to bang her right then, because
I had job responsibilities. So what I did here accomplished things: It added
extra power to the "scarcity" principle, because this was one less opportunity
for her to see me again. It gave me time to develop a more detailed sarging
plan. And it made the reality of her saying yes to dinner with me much more
likely. This is kinda like that old rule of not calling a babe until days
after she gives you her phone number, but it's much more effective than that.
While I do wait a day or two to call a babe, I will wait almost a week if I know
I've established a powerful enough anchor on her. (Like anchoring the stars to
me, or her television set to me, or some other thing she is likely to see when
at her home)
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