"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Not Worthy of Senior Status

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Genghis Juan

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Hey guys,

I just noticed that Sosuave.com has now made me a "Senior" DJ. I am definitely not worthy of this distinction. I first discovered this site at the end of last year, and I admit to have come a long way in terms of knowing the theories, however, I have yet to acheive even an intermediate level of mastery in its application.

I have yet to even do the Boot Camp.

Maybe, all new members of this site, who admit to being aspiring DJ, should submit a field report of the Boot Camp before being able to become a "Senior" DJ. ;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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WaterTiger

Master Don Juan
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The rankings go strictly by how many posts you have. If you feel the status is above your level of develpoment, then use it as a goal to reach. Step up to the challenge the title implies and BECOME a "Senior DJ".

NEVER tell yourself you aren't worthy of a promotion. (There are too many jealous and resentful people in the world who will tell you that.)
 
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