"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Not Worth S3xing Drunk Chicks!

OamImrsNemo

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So last night this girl calls me her and her friend really wanna hang out..okay fine..So we pick them up take them to my house pick up some beer and head home...On our way home she is grabbing me...Then we jump in the hottub and its me 2 of my buddies my chick and one of there chicks and were all naked...so my chick keeps swimming around the hotub and rubbing against my buddies and my buddies(thank god there such good friends) keep trying to push her away....so in the hot tub she messes with me some more....I finally get her to get out and go to my room....Well were fvcking for like 15 minutes and then she cvms and starts asking about her friend and if she is okay? wtf? so I ignore her and keep going but she keeps asking me stupid questions she started having a conversation about if I wanted to date her? so finally I get pist and pull out and say ok lets go down stairs....She's all no no no its fine its fine I said no seriously lets go down stairs she is all so your just gonna leave a hot naked chick up here? fvck it I put another condom on and start going again and then she starts the same bullsh*** again!! I pull out and am fed up...we go downstairs and the other couple are in my guest bedroom...so then she starts trying to conversate about relationship....She is all so what do you want with me do you wanna date or just be how we are? Of course me not thinking I pulled an afc move! I really dont care but I would rather be dating you....she starts giving me all this bs about how she feel she's lead me on and how she doesnt want a relationship right now because she got out of a really bad one and doesnt wanna get hurt again and started kissing me saying sorry and I said look it really doesnt matter theres plenty of people out there we can keep doing what were doing and that is fine but stop spoon feeding me these bs excuses and she kept trying to give me more but I would stop her...so woke her up and my buddy was taking them to there car she was like arnt you coming and I was like naw I need my sleep and she kept begging me to come with theml but I stayed...she's texted me twice once saying Nemo....you lazy bum you should have come....then another one 20 minutes later saying....NEmo what are you doing?....dont go to sleep....neither of which I have responded....


SOOOOO What do yall think?!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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CarlitosWay

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OamImrsNemo said:
So last night this girl calls me her and her friend really wanna hang out..okay fine..So we pick them up take them to my house pick up some beer and head home...On our way home she is grabbing me...Then we jump in the hottub and its me 2 of my buddies my chick and one of there chicks and were all naked...so my chick keeps swimming around the hotub and rubbing against my buddies and my buddies(thank god there such good friends) keep trying to push her away....so in the hot tub she messes with me some more....I finally get her to get out and go to my room....Well were fvcking for like 15 minutes and then she cvms and starts asking about her friend and if she is okay? wtf? so I ignore her and keep going but she keeps asking me stupid questions she started having a conversation about if I wanted to date her? so finally I get pist and pull out and say ok lets go down stairs....She's all no no no its fine its fine I said no seriously lets go down stairs she is all so your just gonna leave a hot naked chick up here? fvck it I put another condom on and start going again and then she starts the same bullsh*** again!! I pull out and am fed up...we go downstairs and the other couple are in my guest bedroom...so then she starts trying to conversate about relationship....She is all so what do you want with me do you wanna date or just be how we are? Of course me not thinking I pulled an afc move! I really dont care but I would rather be dating you....she starts giving me all this bs about how she feel she's lead me on and how she doesnt want a relationship right now because she got out of a really bad one and doesnt wanna get hurt again and started kissing me saying sorry and I said look it really doesnt matter theres plenty of people out there we can keep doing what were doing and that is fine but stop spoon feeding me these bs excuses and she kept trying to give me more but I would stop her...so woke her up and my buddy was taking them to there car she was like arnt you coming and I was like naw I need my sleep and she kept begging me to come with theml but I stayed...she's texted me twice once saying Nemo....you lazy bum you should have come....then another one 20 minutes later saying....NEmo what are you doing?....dont go to sleep....neither of which I have responded....


SOOOOO What do yall think?!
Meh she's probably not going to even remember half of the ****....just PIIHP next time she's spooning you BS.
 

shaunuk

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haha man, what's the problem? drunk girls are the best to get sex from. you got some poon and it sounds like you can get it again. Seems good to me. . .sounds like a standard p1ssed-up night.
 

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So I gotta ask one more quick question if anyone can help me with this....She just called and asked if I can go with her to drop her friend off in anacortes after I get out of class.... should I got after all that bs? or should I put her off for a few days any help would be great thanks!!
 
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