Not willing to play games with girls..would rather be single/celibate

[skinnyguy]

Is anyone else completely exhausted with all these things you have to do in order to pick up chicks nowdays?

PUA made it impossible to get with a decent girl by creating all these stupid pick up techniques. In order to get a girl you have to know exactly what to text and when to text, what to wear, what to have on your facebook page, work out constantly, go weeks without Burger King, have the right pickup line, have tons of friends that you can show to her, have a great job, house, car, etc.

If this is what it takes to get a girlfriend, I think I would rather just be lazy and watch reruns of 80's TV shows on the weekend. I've been doing that lately and it has actually been pretty fun. If I complain in the next couple of months about not having a girlfriend, please kick me. Having a girlfriend is more effort than what it's worth.

 

[Purefilth]

Is anyone else completely exhausted with all these things you have to do in order to pick up chicks nowdays?

PUA made it impossible to get with a decent girl by creating all these stupid pick up techniques. In order to get a girl you have to know exactly what to text and when to text, what to wear, what to have on your facebook page, work out constantly, go weeks without Burger King, have the right pickup line, have tons of friends that you can show to her, have a great job, house, car, etc.

If this is what it takes to get a girlfriend, I think I would rather just be lazy and watch reruns of 80's TV shows on the weekend. I've been doing that lately and it has actually been pretty fun. If I complain in the next couple of months about not having a girlfriend, please kick me. Having a girlfriend is more effort than what it's worth.

PUA is gimmicky ****e - its all just a sales pitch to make you buy a book / go on a bootcamp for only $10000.

Focus on stuff you enjoy.
Burgerking and fast food is all crap for you anyway. I cook decent clean food at home. As for working out - I enjoy tearing up the gym. And why WOULDN'T you want to take a decent job and a good wage?

I don't use pickup lines or go and wait a certai time to call or text. I do whatever I fell like whenever I want to. Thats what this site about. Becoming happy and comfortable in yourself. There a focus on pickup because that what most guys feel they suck at and want to improve on. its all about the big picture.


I have discovered the meaning of life.

It is -

To give life Meaning.

 

[djgirl]

I'm with you on that one skinny guy, they're more trouble then what they are worth! Fu** games

 

[Tictac]

You're sorta missing th point.

Take those things you find useful and consistent with who you are and want to be and make them part of you.

PUA has a lot of gimmickry (how else can they sell you stuff?).

DJ is different. It's not a cookbook or a script.

 

[floydb25]

Sounds like you might be caring too much, and taking things too seriously. Just gotta realize that it IS all a game - and to not give a ****. Just gotta have fun and live life. Don't get tangled up in the stresses of how things are. Nobody wants things to be how they are - even outside of the dating realm - but you gotta deal and adapt... or be left behind. The nature of attraction & people isn't going to change; these "games" exist for a reason.

 

[Tomthebomb]

Nah man, it's fun, not exhausting at all. Forget about the techniques/line/routines/magic tricks. Game is not about that pua crap.

You sound like you have bigger problems though, a lack of motivation. Nobody here or anywhere can motivate you, it has to be internal, you need to work on yourself, be awesome, build a better life, get strong, work harder, earn more, get more friends, build your wealth etc. Self-improvement is how you have a happy, fulfilling life not bloody burger king or television.