I'm a little annoyed and I could use your opinions on this one DJ's.
Scenario:
This HB 6.5 bought me a Christmas gift (a shirt) and tells me to get it from her soon or later. I had a fuzzy feeling she was doing this in order to get a date with me, and I dated her once before this. I was doing all the DJ material and things were going great, but I wasn't too sure if I wanted to take things to the next level with her, so I just gave the date a coup de grace by "officially" asking her out with a hangman game (lol that trick is PERFECT i tell you). She hesitates and 3 days later she says "I see us as friends."
Weeks pass by and today, she texts me with these exact words:
Hey Jason.... was just bored.... how you doing? i have a question. do you not wanna hang out and get your shirt i got for you?
It's sort of annoying me how she rejected me, and after I already nexted her, she comes after me. She's obviously using the shirt she bought for me as an excuse to get me to go out with her, but let's be realistic here: once you let go of a good opportunity, it usually doesn't come back. She let go of me, and I consider myself a good opportunity (whether it's ****iness or positive self-image, you decide), so her loss.
I have 3 options:
1) I can just give an excuse that I'm busy through the winter break so she and I can figure something out after the break ends.
2) I can hang out with her just for one day, but my intention would be to simply receive the shirt, and have a little social outing as a fresh breath of air.
3) I can say NO and just call everything off, whether I get the shirt or not.
What do you guys think? (Feel free to give an option outside of mine.)
Scenario:
This HB 6.5 bought me a Christmas gift (a shirt) and tells me to get it from her soon or later. I had a fuzzy feeling she was doing this in order to get a date with me, and I dated her once before this. I was doing all the DJ material and things were going great, but I wasn't too sure if I wanted to take things to the next level with her, so I just gave the date a coup de grace by "officially" asking her out with a hangman game (lol that trick is PERFECT i tell you). She hesitates and 3 days later she says "I see us as friends."
Weeks pass by and today, she texts me with these exact words:
Hey Jason.... was just bored.... how you doing? i have a question. do you not wanna hang out and get your shirt i got for you?
It's sort of annoying me how she rejected me, and after I already nexted her, she comes after me. She's obviously using the shirt she bought for me as an excuse to get me to go out with her, but let's be realistic here: once you let go of a good opportunity, it usually doesn't come back. She let go of me, and I consider myself a good opportunity (whether it's ****iness or positive self-image, you decide), so her loss.
I have 3 options:
1) I can just give an excuse that I'm busy through the winter break so she and I can figure something out after the break ends.
2) I can hang out with her just for one day, but my intention would be to simply receive the shirt, and have a little social outing as a fresh breath of air.
3) I can say NO and just call everything off, whether I get the shirt or not.
What do you guys think? (Feel free to give an option outside of mine.)