"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Not the best prom...

JerryFl08

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Anyways you're young and are fortunate enough to be able to get a head start on some of this stuff. Just grab some ice cold kool aid and enjoy the ride.
haha thanks man, over-analyzing every detail is another problem that i got, i have a hard time just remaining "chill"

That was also a great song btw, i've heard it before, but yea i never really payed attention to the lyrics i just liked the beat.

And about the breakfast thing, she wants me to take her breakfast to school cuz i have her in class first period, not so much of going out and eating breakfast with her.
I could definately go for bowling or golfing. but i do want to go see that movie which i why i figured of taking her along, but yea i understand why movies as first dates can be like ehhh..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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JerryFl08 said:
haha thanks man, over-analyzing every detail is another problem that i got, i have a hard time just remaining "chill"

You and about 80% of the men have this problem...

That was also a great song btw, i've heard it before, but yea i never really payed attention to the lyrics i just liked the beat.

Yes I will be at a Roger Waters show over here in Michigan, come October can't wait!!!


And about the breakfast thing, she wants me to take her breakfast to school cuz i have her in class first period, not so much of going out and eating breakfast with her.
I could definately go for bowling or golfing. but i do want to go see that movie which i why i figured of taking her along, but yea i understand why movies as first dates can be like ehhh..
I'm not saying it could not be a great time as when I was your age I would take a chic out to the movies and always would kiss close very easily. Yet they were usually very into me before, so not much work was needed.

Yet if you barely know the chic and are not 100% sure if she's real into you, a couple hours sitting in the dark watching a movie isn't the greatest idea. Go out with some buddies + girls you could care less if you get or not.:)
 

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I'm not saying it could not be a great time as when I was your age I would take a chic out to the movies and always would kiss close very easily. Yet they were usually very into me before, so not much work was needed.

Yet if you barely know the chic and are not 100% sure if she's real into you, a couple hours sitting in the dark watching a movie isn't the greatest idea.
yea i getcha,, earlier i was reading S.U.R.F's thread that was called something fellow low lifes of sosuave and i'd have to say it was a pretty good post to help me stop overthinking stuff, and not care so much in trying to just hook up with girls, and instead focus more on improving myself and maintaining a better mindset..Of course i'm going to try an hook up with girls, but have the mindset like how he mentioned, so i don't get instantly emotionally attached like how i did with my previously mentioned prom date. i'd hate to say that i still kinda miss her sometimes... but fck her! she fcked up my prom!

ha havnt talked to her since wednesday, it actually feels alot longer than that..the only times it seems kinda akward is when we're both on myspace or facebook, but when i see her online after awhile i'll just appear offline..
 
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