"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Not the best prom...

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Anyways you're young and are fortunate enough to be able to get a head start on some of this stuff. Just grab some ice cold kool aid and enjoy the ride.
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haha thanks man, over-analyzing every detail is another problem that i got, i have a hard time just remaining "chill"

That was also a great song btw, i've heard it before, but yea i never really payed attention to the lyrics i just liked the beat.

And about the breakfast thing, she wants me to take her breakfast to school cuz i have her in class first period, not so much of going out and eating breakfast with her.
I could definately go for bowling or golfing. but i do want to go see that movie which i why i figured of taking her along, but yea i understand why movies as first dates can be like ehhh..
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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JerryFl08 said:
haha thanks man, over-analyzing every detail is another problem that i got, i have a hard time just remaining "chill"

You and about 80% of the men have this problem...

That was also a great song btw, i've heard it before, but yea i never really payed attention to the lyrics i just liked the beat.

Yes I will be at a Roger Waters show over here in Michigan, come October can't wait!!!

And about the breakfast thing, she wants me to take her breakfast to school cuz i have her in class first period, not so much of going out and eating breakfast with her.
I could definately go for bowling or golfing. but i do want to go see that movie which i why i figured of taking her along, but yea i understand why movies as first dates can be like ehhh..
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I'm not saying it could not be a great time as when I was your age I would take a chic out to the movies and always would kiss close very easily. Yet they were usually very into me before, so not much work was needed.

Yet if you barely know the chic and are not 100% sure if she's real into you, a couple hours sitting in the dark watching a movie isn't the greatest idea. Go out with some buddies + girls you could care less if you get or not.:)
 
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I'm not saying it could not be a great time as when I was your age I would take a chic out to the movies and always would kiss close very easily. Yet they were usually very into me before, so not much work was needed.

Yet if you barely know the chic and are not 100% sure if she's real into you, a couple hours sitting in the dark watching a movie isn't the greatest idea.
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yea i getcha,, earlier i was reading S.U.R.F's thread that was called something fellow low lifes of sosuave and i'd have to say it was a pretty good post to help me stop overthinking stuff, and not care so much in trying to just hook up with girls, and instead focus more on improving myself and maintaining a better mindset..Of course i'm going to try an hook up with girls, but have the mindset like how he mentioned, so i don't get instantly emotionally attached like how i did with my previously mentioned prom date. i'd hate to say that i still kinda miss her sometimes... but fck her! she fcked up my prom!

ha havnt talked to her since wednesday, it actually feels alot longer than that..the only times it seems kinda akward is when we're both on myspace or facebook, but when i see her online after awhile i'll just appear offline..
 
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