_sideways_
Master Don Juan
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What's the deal?
I lost my anonymity. I work with everyone around town.
I lost my anonymity. I work with everyone around town.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Not that I'm the popular guy in town, but I want to know how to hide it or own it
- Thread starter _sideways_
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Date a girl, everyone talks about it. Date another girl and everyone is like "oh, different girl". Date another and then people won't care anymore because they no longer expect the girl you're with to to develop into anything fruitful.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Don't worry about this. Trust me, having a reputation is not a bad thing. Just be yourself and don't worry about what other people think.