"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Not texting her the whole day...

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Desdinova

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I've done it, but I wouldn't recommend going the entire day without messaging her. You can have the same effect by not messaging her for an extended period of time. Usually I'll do the entire day until I'm off work. If you text her every day, you're going to need a story to back up the sudden change. I tell them that I left my phone at home, the battery died, no service, etc.
 

TheCWord

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I hope, when it comes to texting her every day, you guys are referring to girlfriends or more serious plates.
 

JoeMarron

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TheCWord said:
I hope, when it comes to texting her every day, you guys are referring to girlfriends or more serious plates.
Ikr and even then you still dont need to do it. After awhile she'll end up texting you anyways.
 
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