"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Not taking a hot shower until I get a #

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That may seem pretty harsh on myself but really its not. I've read thru sosuave years ago and have improved myself since then. I talk to people I don't know rather comfortably now. I plan on doing this everyday of the week.

It's just the past few months I been bytchin out even though I'm fully capable. So with this, I'll have more motivation.

Took a cold shower this morning and :eek: . I couldn't get under the water, it was ICY. I'm getting a # today (I know my target too, in my physics class) cuz I'm craving for some hot water now. I'll write out the approach(or approaches if it takes more than one!) when I get back tonight
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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mackdaddy27

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actually i do a similiar thing

everyday i dont get a number ( its not number but getting a pull for this one0=), I have to get my asss up at 6 am and run and exercise for 1 hour before work.

Trust me, by the time end of the day comes up . YOU ARE rearing to get that number, plus all those times of work out, add up in weight loss

hehe

Bigboss of the big south !
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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