"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AJTD

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I met a woman several months ago. We met online and began to correspond on a regular basis. Sometimes phoning each other. She lives 100 miles away from me. Visited her last month for the weekend, it was ok except for the way she kept her house. Will not go into detail about how she kept it, but it was not very clean to say the least. Ended up leaving early then I said I would. While I was there we did get intimate with each other and that was good.

I've been invited to come and stay for the weekend again. I'm not sure if I want to. She is attracted to me. Just not sure if it is safe for me health wise to go up there and be in her house. If I decide not to go what do I tell her? Last time I was at her place, I emailed her a couple of days after and told her I could not stay in a house that was not at least cleaned some. She ended up getting all offended and saying all men are pigs. What do I do guys? Go ahead and stay with her for the weekend and hope that she has cleaned up her place or just tell her I am unable to make it this weekend?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

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AJTD said:
She ended up getting all offended and saying all men are pigs. What do I do guys? Go ahead and stay with her for the weekend and hope that she has cleaned up her place or just tell her I am unable to make it this weekend?
LOL!!! Dude,this is funny. She's the one with the dirty house and she calls you the pig.:crackup:

I don't know what to tell you man. If her house really bothers you that much,then just tell her you won't be able to make it. Maybe she'll get the hint and clean her place up.
 
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