"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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AJTD

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I met a woman several months ago. We met online and began to correspond on a regular basis. Sometimes phoning each other. She lives 100 miles away from me. Visited her last month for the weekend, it was ok except for the way she kept her house. Will not go into detail about how she kept it, but it was not very clean to say the least. Ended up leaving early then I said I would. While I was there we did get intimate with each other and that was good.

I've been invited to come and stay for the weekend again. I'm not sure if I want to. She is attracted to me. Just not sure if it is safe for me health wise to go up there and be in her house. If I decide not to go what do I tell her? Last time I was at her place, I emailed her a couple of days after and told her I could not stay in a house that was not at least cleaned some. She ended up getting all offended and saying all men are pigs. What do I do guys? Go ahead and stay with her for the weekend and hope that she has cleaned up her place or just tell her I am unable to make it this weekend?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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AJTD said:
She ended up getting all offended and saying all men are pigs. What do I do guys? Go ahead and stay with her for the weekend and hope that she has cleaned up her place or just tell her I am unable to make it this weekend?
LOL!!! Dude,this is funny. She's the one with the dirty house and she calls you the pig.:crackup:

I don't know what to tell you man. If her house really bothers you that much,then just tell her you won't be able to make it. Maybe she'll get the hint and clean her place up.
 
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