Not sure what to think here...

[WastelandWarrior]

I didn't even know the meaning of game until about 3 years ago. So, now I've got some game (not much), but still find it difficult to DJ the hottest chicks. I'm in sales and I can talk to pretty much anyone about anything and hold up my end of the convo and usually part of theirs.

So there is this girl, Anne, that I've know for a really really long time. Her family members suggested the 2 of us go out, which we did.
So for the first date, I invite her over and I cooked her dinner, we watched a movie, had a nice make-out session, she talked about me in her future. That was on monday. I texted her Tuesday to say I had a good time. I called on Thursday, she never returned my call but instead texted me saying she's in bed w/ her daughter. We shot a few texts back and forth and all seemed good but I swear this girl is trying to flake on me. After I called her out on it she says she's not.

I tried to set up something for Monday, but she never returned my call. She's lost Monday w/ me.

I just don't know what to think.
I don't plan on talking to her again until she calls me, but part of me wants to call her up on Monday just to see.

She'll be back from vacation on Sunday. If I hear from her then, should I give in and hang out w/ her Monday? I'm still going to end up doing the exact same thing, but just wondering if I should bother trying to include her?

Any advice here would be great.

 

[Nighthawk]

Could be she's testing you for neediness. Give her the gift of missing you.

 

[Monkey]

If she calls on Sunday, just casually say you've already made other plans for Monday now then DON'T SAY ANOTHER WORD <VERY IMPORTANT!

She should reply with something like 'well how about Wednesday then?' < this is good, you want her to suggest another time.
But if she gives you any other excuse or waffle then forget it.

You need to make her see she can't ignore you then suddenly have you jump to attention the next minute when she wants something to do.